they told me that in aa to im just to hung up on someone that wants to play games with my hart

if she is doing this, then is she the one for you? It's natural to feel the way you do...just don't sink into it.

Excercise!

Adrenal glands pumps, Serotonins fire and emit, and norepinephrine oozes!

What ever you do -- don’t drink or self medicate.

Snap out of it and get moving!

im know but im just to dumb to quit taking her back why r men so stupid some times

i second that! someone that trully cares about you will not play with your feelings :. you don't need someone like that:. don't drink anymore, and just move on.

please note that the above is just IMHO, not telling you what to do, but rather what i would do

whipped. don't worry, ur not alone. i'm guilty for sure.

she's locked up and i'm sendin her the few bucks i managed to hustle up. i got nothin.

AA? You are already a dependent. Why would let "a girl" do this to you? At the end of the day, who is more important? YOU are!

Relationships should compliment rather than complicate. Dump your baggage!

Good luck but do something! Get a little tough with yourself. You’re a grown man, right?

Just say no to pity parties!



Don't be dumb! Make better choices.

you aren't dumb. You just need to improve yourself. You know that you don't deserve to be treated a certain way.

What would you tell someone else if the roles were reversed?

When you feel you can not lesten to their shlt,,,and know their messing with ya,,,then,,,just drop their thoughts and voice,,,and get on here,,,PLAY,,,,,,,act a fool,,in good taste,,,lol,but being SILLY,or NUTS here,,,,is cool to do and it lifts,,,,YOU away from all the shlt that is in your5 head to think about....

ASK for emails,,,,THEY keep you to busy to TRY and answer to think about anything,,,,,lol

and escape into this world,,,,and leave the pain in the other world,,,,,YOU can do it man,,,,,,,






<---------Look at the FUN their having......




<---------Look at what this dudes checking OUT!!!






<------Be careful with this dude,,,he's a bit twisted,,,,lol

Also, think of this angle.

Women will not be attracted to you in this state, right?

Be strong, independent, and heal yourself; develop self-worth, and your esteem will rise.

Go to school and get a degree!

Then, you will be in better shape to attract a better person.

thank you all you have made me fill better bout this thing an my self

i dont have prob getting girls i just keep getting wrong one

... then you have a problem getting girls.

Quality and not quantity!

YOU have to raise your standards. You can't do that until you take time for you.

Have a good night ... and reflect. Make tomorrow a better day.

You're dating someone in jail?

k thank you

Well, if you're clinically depressed...it's not something you just snap out of! Seek a physician's help. It's one thing to say you're depressed by something....another to suffer from Depression. It's real and is woefully misunderstood. Check a website...like WebMD...and see if you see yourself under the symptoms for various forms of Depression. There's treatment...but it's not something you just say...I'm going to feel better today. Chemical imbalances, among other things, and treatments exist. More than 20 million people suffer from Clinical Depression in US alone.
Good luck...

dating, eh... i mean, i dunno what to call it really. i jes know that's the girl i'm in love with. not exactly sure how she feels about me. can't figure the girl out. she never says much, and her actions leave me completely in the dark.

why would you put yourselves through that? If you guys had a friend in your situation...what would you tell them?

But, but, but ... there are hundreds of girls NOT in jail!

Why not invest your time and love in a healthy relationship?

I must be in left field. I would never date anyone that ever got arrested. To me, they aren't in control of their life -- even if it's as simple as paying a ticket on time (before it goes to warrant). I don't even have friends who have been arrested. I couldn't do it ... that is just not a good element to allow in life.

To quote YellowRose



Much luck to you in resolving your problem.

same thing yall tell us but he dumb to he would not listen men not thinking with right head me not at least