ex has been talking badly about you to your mutual friends. How would you handle it? Let's make it interesting and say you're pretty drunk when you hear it and two minutes later you see them on the street 50 feet away.

adjust "scope" to 100 yrds, then pull trigger.!!

My friends know that I have a habit of hooking up with loonies, so I don't worry about it!

that sounds like my last relationship already

I avoid places that the ex would go because I don't need the drama. My friends know me (the good and bad) and if they want to listen to gossip from an ex then maybe they aren't really friends

My ex alwys carried a chainsaw with her so I would run!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Depends,,,on IF what she was saying about me was,,,,TRUE,wink,
IF so,,,cool....
If NOT,,,,,cool,,,as her words wouldn't CHANGE my real friends of who I am to them,wink,,
So lies just TRY,,,to start others looking,wink,

And having two ex-s personally,,we still have respect for each other as for TALKING about the other,wink.

My friends? I wouldn't let one of my friends within a mile of someone I was dating, so it's an improbable scenerio.

I actually went through part of this except for me hearing her talk schit near me. and our mutual friends are fully aware she's a liar & they all dislike her now, she only has herself to blame. However some of the new to me people in their group that have met me absolutely love me

hahaha I've been divorced for five (?) years and I guarantee that she is still bad mouthin me whenever my name comes up

It is funny how that works. If the exs do bad mouth me???, they would all come back in a heartbeat if I showed interest, so maybe the bad talk would just be to make them feel better about something they lost????

I am still friendly with most of them.

I'm like yellowrose10 I avoid places that I know he's going to show up at. Just makes life easier

Punch her in the throat

That's my philosophy as well.

Hehehehe do what I did when it happen walk right up to them and in a loud enough voice confront them and watch them stutter like hell. Then turn to the so called gf and tell them he is all yours now deal you deal with him..........turn around and walk away with a big ole smile...........

OMG, that is like soooo high school!

I ignore drama, and anyone who participates will be out of my life. I won’t even listen to the excuses or the whining. Doors shut and I move on.

I'm really lucky. I've never dated anyone immature enough to act like you described. Once the relationship is over -- we went separate ways without issue.

I would walk up to him and ask him if he remembers how good it felt when I would swallow him up, and how about a shot on the roof of my mouth for old times sake!! Then walk away!! LOL

There is always a method to my madness. Not that 2/3 of the answers would be the action they would really choose, sometimes it's just fun to throw a scenario out there and watch people have fun with it! Simply feeding the beast of bordem so he doesn't take over.


OMG, that is like soooo high school! OMG, that is like so valley girl! fer shure!

humm my ex hubby talk bad about me.. i would say its me talking bad about him. LOL i kicked him the jewels for he was cheating..

as for the other ex bfs talk bad about me..i dont think they would except for one, and the last time i saw him he seem to have a mentalproblem... i was with him when my daughter was little and his mom i had a major *** attitude. my daughter hated her, what 2yr old would hate anyone. she couldnt stand his mom.. actually no one could.
he told me after we had broken up that he had cancer and only had 6months to live, i called his mom later and i mention that to her, and of course she didnt belive any of it and she hung up on me.. i dont belive he ever had it i think he brought it up for me to go back to him... of course i didnt

I'd start hitting on her as if she was a complete stranger in a bar or something.

Honestly though, I've never been one for drama, conflicts, and such, so I avoid them at all costs. I'm open and honest and communicate, so any issues would be resolved in a civil manner before breaking up.