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No biggie Do you know how much porn the average guy has on his pc?? That's why it's a billion dollar biz!!! So he had some of the old girl. Why can't he look at it!! Mac and I looked together at his ex!! She's cute. No biggie Not worth fighting about or feeling insecure My ex/gf looked at pics of my ex wife naked....it made her feel better about herself! |
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I am with you 100% on this one. It is true that men are more visual. Also, her holding on to the love letters has more of an emotional attachment than a sexual one. As a guy, if I'm in a relationship, I'm not as worried about my partner having a sexual fling as I am her getting emotionally attached to someone else. The emotional content is what would bother me because her affection is now being split and I would not be the focus of it anymore. At that point it would be time to go our separate ways.
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You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off.
Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal. |
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I read once,
when a woman gets cheated on it's the emotional attachment with another that hurts her the most when a guy gets cheated on it's the physical violation of his territory that hurts the most maybe not but I read that |
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You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off. Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal. I told her? WTF? Why not let him go? I have never had a problem with my guy watchin porn or going to a strip club as long as I'm either including at least some of the time or it doesn't get to be to excessive and happens all the time. I think in general that most people, even in good relationships, still like to look at the opposit sex and can apprecitate when someone else looks good. I think flippin out over your man that says some model on TV is hot, or yelling at him everytime he might glance at a woman that walks by is just childish. He lives with you. He loves you. He has no chance in hell with the woman on TV. Just because he's at a strip club, doesn't mean he's sleeping with strippers. |
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I am with you 100% on this one. It is true that men are more visual. Also, her holding on to the love letters has more of an emotional attachment than a sexual one. As a guy, if I'm in a relationship, I'm not as worried about my partner having a sexual fling as I am her getting emotionally attached to someone else. The emotional content is what would bother me because her affection is now being split and I would not be the focus of it anymore. At that point it would be time to go our separate ways. |
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You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off. Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal. I told her? WTF? Why not let him go? I have never had a problem with my guy watchin porn or going to a strip club as long as I'm either including at least some of the time or it doesn't get to be to excessive and happens all the time. I think in general that most people, even in good relationships, still like to look at the opposit sex and can apprecitate when someone else looks good. I think flippin out over your man that says some model on TV is hot, or yelling at him everytime he might glance at a woman that walks by is just childish. He lives with you. He loves you. He has no chance in hell with the woman on TV. Just because he's at a strip club, doesn't mean he's sleeping with strippers. |
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You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off. Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal. I told her? WTF? Why not let him go? I have never had a problem with my guy watchin porn or going to a strip club as long as I'm either including at least some of the time or it doesn't get to be to excessive and happens all the time. I think in general that most people, even in good relationships, still like to look at the opposit sex and can apprecitate when someone else looks good. I think flippin out over your man that says some model on TV is hot, or yelling at him everytime he might glance at a woman that walks by is just childish. He lives with you. He loves you. He has no chance in hell with the woman on TV. Just because he's at a strip club, doesn't mean he's sleeping with strippers. Ahhhhhh...the more you post Jill...the more I lust you. |
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Well, Lemme at her. I'll tell her I'll take her man and go to strip clubs and watch porn with him.
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Well, Lemme at her. I'll tell her I'll take her man and go to strip clubs and watch porn with him. |
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And now he is less the photos he deleted for her!
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And now he is less the photos he deleted for her! |
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Well, I won't get to see them and I'm not letting him take any of me!
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I'm sorry. I'm cracking myself up. It's been a long day...
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Hmmmmm....my plan to woo Jill is working. Hehe! |
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Ive got neked pics of EVERY doll I have owned!!
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Ive got neked pics of EVERY doll I have owned!! I just bought the copies on EBAY. You got your cut right? |
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Tough topic...thts the one thng I hate abt relationships people try 2 hold on 2 memories whether pics video watever..dude thts bs! I say new relationship = clean slate
Just let it all go |
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