Topic: letters vs porn
isaac_dede's photo
Thu 11/19/09 08:41 AM

No biggie

Do you know how much porn the average guy has on his pc??

That's why it's a billion dollar biz!!!

So he had some of the old girl. Why can't he look at it!! Mac and I looked together at his ex!! She's cute. No biggie
Not worth fighting about or feeling insecure:heart:

My ex/gf looked at pics of my ex wife naked....it made her feel better about herself! :laughing:

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Thu 11/19/09 08:42 AM
I am with you 100% on this one. It is true that men are more visual. Also, her holding on to the love letters has more of an emotional attachment than a sexual one. As a guy, if I'm in a relationship, I'm not as worried about my partner having a sexual fling as I am her getting emotionally attached to someone else. The emotional content is what would bother me because her affection is now being split and I would not be the focus of it anymore. At that point it would be time to go our separate ways.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 11/19/09 09:06 AM
You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off.laugh laugh

Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal.


Quietman_2009's photo
Thu 11/19/09 09:11 AM
I read once,

when a woman gets cheated on it's the emotional attachment with another that hurts her the most

when a guy gets cheated on it's the physical violation of his territory that hurts the most

maybe not but I read that

Jill298's photo
Thu 11/19/09 09:47 AM

You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off.laugh laugh

Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal.


She said the same thing about the porn to him. She feels it's cheating. And then she talking about how he wanted to go to the strip club one night and she felt that was cheating too.
I told her? WTF? Why not let him go? I have never had a problem with my guy watchin porn or going to a strip club as long as I'm either including at least some of the time laugh or it doesn't get to be to excessive and happens all the time.
I think in general that most people, even in good relationships, still like to look at the opposit sex and can apprecitate when someone else looks good.
I think flippin out over your man that says some model on TV is hot, or yelling at him everytime he might glance at a woman that walks by is just childish.
He lives with you. He loves you. He has no chance in hell with the woman on TV. Just because he's at a strip club, doesn't mean he's sleeping with strippers.

Jill298's photo
Thu 11/19/09 09:49 AM

I am with you 100% on this one. It is true that men are more visual. Also, her holding on to the love letters has more of an emotional attachment than a sexual one. As a guy, if I'm in a relationship, I'm not as worried about my partner having a sexual fling as I am her getting emotionally attached to someone else. The emotional content is what would bother me because her affection is now being split and I would not be the focus of it anymore. At that point it would be time to go our separate ways.
agreed flowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 11/19/09 09:56 AM


You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off.laugh laugh

Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal.


She said the same thing about the porn to him. She feels it's cheating. And then she talking about how he wanted to go to the strip club one night and she felt that was cheating too.
I told her? WTF? Why not let him go? I have never had a problem with my guy watchin porn or going to a strip club as long as I'm either including at least some of the time laugh or it doesn't get to be to excessive and happens all the time.
I think in general that most people, even in good relationships, still like to look at the opposit sex and can apprecitate when someone else looks good.
I think flippin out over your man that says some model on TV is hot, or yelling at him everytime he might glance at a woman that walks by is just childish.
He lives with you. He loves you. He has no chance in hell with the woman on TV. Just because he's at a strip club, doesn't mean he's sleeping with strippers.
I have to agree with you one the stripper deal. I used to cocktail at a night club. Every month we had a strip show. It's all just fun. You go home to your SO, not a stripper. It's their JOB in entertainment. They have SO"s also.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 11/19/09 09:58 AM


You know, my ex wife felt that if I watched porn alone, without her there, that I was cheating on her. I never got that. I told her that if I came home and found her watching porn, that I would shut it off...and proceed to make sweet monkey love to her. Ok, so I wouldn't turn the porn off.laugh laugh

Anyways, seems that others here have stated the obvious. Your friend didn't want to hear the truth, and yes she did want you to be on her side. Girl Power ya know? And, to your credit, most women would have joined there fellow lady in shunning the guy. But you didn't. Cool deal.


She said the same thing about the porn to him. She feels it's cheating. And then she talking about how he wanted to go to the strip club one night and she felt that was cheating too.
I told her? WTF? Why not let him go? I have never had a problem with my guy watchin porn or going to a strip club as long as I'm either including at least some of the time laugh or it doesn't get to be to excessive and happens all the time.
I think in general that most people, even in good relationships, still like to look at the opposit sex and can apprecitate when someone else looks good.
I think flippin out over your man that says some model on TV is hot, or yelling at him everytime he might glance at a woman that walks by is just childish.
He lives with you. He loves you. He has no chance in hell with the woman on TV. Just because he's at a strip club, doesn't mean he's sleeping with strippers.


Ahhhhhh...the more you post Jill...the more I lust you.:wink: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Jill298's photo
Thu 11/19/09 10:08 AM
blushing blushing

lilith401's photo
Thu 11/19/09 11:35 AM
Well, Lemme at her. I'll tell her I'll take her man and go to strip clubs and watch porn with him. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Jill298's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:09 PM

Well, Lemme at her. I'll tell her I'll take her man and go to strip clubs and watch porn with him. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
:banana: :banana: you should be able to... I imgaine he's going to be single any moment now:laughing:

lilith401's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:10 PM
And now he is less the photos he deleted for her!

Jill298's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:19 PM

And now he is less the photos he deleted for her!
laugh laugh I'm sure he'll get more.

lilith401's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:27 PM
Well, I won't get to see them and I'm not letting him take any of me!

Jill298's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:29 PM
frustrated frustrated frustrated

lilith401's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:34 PM
I'm sorry. I'm cracking myself up. It's been a long day...laugh

Goofball73's photo
Thu 11/19/09 02:02 PM

blushing blushing


Hmmmmm....my plan to woo Jill is working. Hehe!pitchfork pitchfork :laughing: :laughing:

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Thu 11/19/09 03:23 PM
Ive got neked pics of EVERY doll I have owned!!bigsmile

Goofball73's photo
Thu 11/19/09 06:50 PM

Ive got neked pics of EVERY doll I have owned!!bigsmile


I just bought the copies on EBAY. You got your cut right?:laughing: :laughing:

no photo
Thu 11/19/09 10:22 PM
Tough topic...thts the one thng I hate abt relationships people try 2 hold on 2 memories whether pics video watever..dude thts bs! I say new relationship = clean slate
Just let it all go