Topic: Your Definition Of Love
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Wed 11/18/09 07:27 PM
If YOU feel YOU have to TELL THEM you love them,,,there's something wrong,wink.

IF THEY feel they need to tell YOU they love you there;s something wrong,,,,''

IF the ACTIONS you BOTH display for each other every minute of your time together,,,does not SHOW your love for one another,,,then YOU BOTH SHOULDN;T CALL WHAT YOU HAVE,,,,,,LOVE..

Three words NEVER to be OVER-USED,,,,I LOVE YOU!!!!

That's CHOICE ROUND my friend,,,,,cream of the crop.
me GOLD before me eyes,,,,,MY TO DIE FOR,,,,,ALL....

YET,,,,it can always be expressed through any act or look,wink..

Gator76's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:34 PM


Sure, it's both, but consider...

If you ever put someone's wants and needs before your without ever a thought...
If your heart races when that someone enters a room...
If you can't wait to leave dinner because you desire that someone so much...
If you find it unfathomable to ever cheat on that someone...
If you would give up every material possession just to be with that someone...
If you can laugh or cry with that someone over a movie, a book, a song or a sunset...
If you can freely and easily say "It's all right" when that someone makes a mistake...
If you would rather spend time with that someone than any other...
If you can support that someone's dreams with never a thought of jealousy...

:heart: These are just a few ACTIONS that say LOVE :heart:





Teach me.....ol' wise one.shades


I don't know about wise...but I KNOW I'm not old! laugh :wink:

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:46 PM
Here is my "definition" of love.....







We'll do it all
Everything
On our own

We don't need
Anything
Or anyone

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

I don't quite know
How to say
How I feel

Those three words
Are said too much
They're not enough

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

Forget what we're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that's bursting into life

Let's waste time
Chasing cars
Around our heads

I need your grace
To remind me
To find my own

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

Forget what we're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that's bursting into life

All that I am
All that I ever was
Is here in your perfect eyes, they're all I can see

I don't know where
Confused about how as well
Just know that these things will never change for us at all

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

RoamingOrator's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:05 PM


:heart:Is your definition of "love" more about actions or feelings?:heart:

smile2I know the two should go hand in hand, but how do you rate how much you love someone or how much they love you?smile2


flowerforyouBy what you/they say,by what you/they feel,or by what you/they do?flowerforyou



Love is finite, you only have so much. We pass it around, we give it away, but if you aren't recieving it, you can run out. You've seen the results, those people who are bitter and closed off, they just haven't been given any back. Heck, I was one of those people for a while. I got lucky, someone took pity on me and showed me some kindness.

It doesn't take much to fill most hearts; a knowing and sly glance, the caress of a face, holding someones hand, a tender hug. So just make sure you're giving it where it's needed, if you do, you're heart will always be full.

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:07 PM
here my point of it no more not ever again it sucks frustrated frustrated frustrated :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

artman48's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:11 PM
It's the MONEY!--lots of money and I love em. But I'm old and ran out of real love being married for 38 years. Why didn't she find another man when I was younger???---Yep MONEY is good!!sad sad

miss_Chris's photo
Wed 11/18/09 08:49 PM



Sure, it's both, but consider...

If you ever put someone's wants and needs before your without ever a thought...
If your heart races when that someone enters a room...
If you can't wait to leave dinner because you desire that someone so much...
If you find it unfathomable to ever cheat on that someone...
If you would give up every material possession just to be with that someone...
If you can laugh or cry with that someone over a movie, a book, a song or a sunset...
If you can freely and easily say "It's all right" when that someone makes a mistake...
If you would rather spend time with that someone than any other...
If you can support that someone's dreams with never a thought of jealousy...

:heart: These are just a few ACTIONS that say LOVE :heart:





Teach me.....ol' wise one.shades


I don't know about wise...but I KNOW I'm not old! laugh :wink:



These are all wonderful examples of actions of Love. Yet they are narrowly defined by the type of love. I think the definition of "Love" is where the diagreements begin. That is to ask the age old question What is Love?

However, I do like the attributes of actions in the quote. I am not sure if it is entirely original?

Gator76's photo
Wed 11/18/09 09:42 PM




Sure, it's both, but consider...

If you ever put someone's wants and needs before your without ever a thought...
If your heart races when that someone enters a room...
If you can't wait to leave dinner because you desire that someone so much...
If you find it unfathomable to ever cheat on that someone...
If you would give up every material possession just to be with that someone...
If you can laugh or cry with that someone over a movie, a book, a song or a sunset...
If you can freely and easily say "It's all right" when that someone makes a mistake...
If you would rather spend time with that someone than any other...
If you can support that someone's dreams with never a thought of jealousy...

:heart: These are just a few ACTIONS that say LOVE :heart:





Teach me.....ol' wise one.shades


I don't know about wise...but I KNOW I'm not old! laugh :wink:



These are all wonderful examples of actions of Love. Yet they are narrowly defined by the type of love. I think the definition of "Love" is where the diagreements begin. That is to ask the age old question What is Love?

However, I do like the attributes of actions in the quote. I am not sure if it is entirely original?

Let me assure you...it is...:wink: Oh, there might be a word or phrase that can be found somewhere...hard to be totally original...but I write it just before posting. happy

Cross_Knight_12's photo
Wed 11/18/09 11:36 PM
Your actions should tell whomever you are with that you love them; so before you ever say the words, he/she already should know.

But be careful love is a two edged sword; it can bring great joy and pleasure, or unimmaginable pain and grief.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 11/19/09 05:24 AM

If YOU feel YOU have to TELL THEM you love them,,,there's something wrong,wink.

IF THEY feel they need to tell YOU they love you there;s something wrong,,,,''

IF the ACTIONS you BOTH display for each other every minute of your time together,,,does not SHOW your love for one another,,,then YOU BOTH SHOULDN;T CALL WHAT YOU HAVE,,,,,,LOVE..

Three words NEVER to be OVER-USED,,,,I LOVE YOU!!!!

That's CHOICE ROUND my friend,,,,,cream of the crop.
me GOLD before me eyes,,,,,MY TO DIE FOR,,,,,ALL....

YET,,,,it can always be expressed through any act or look,wink..
:thumbsup:

CGIRL777's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:01 PM
flowerforyou

What is the true meaning of unconditional love?
When you love someone unconditionally you do not set limits or boundaries on that love, not circumstances that would cause you to withdraw it, there is nothing that would cause you to not love the person. Even if the other person does something that you feel is intentional, it is overlooked if you are truly committed to unconditional love. You do not try to control the actions of the other person, nor do you tell them that you will not love them if they act a certain way or do a certain thing. When this kind of love is present both partners feel more secure and neither of them seeks to control the other.
The reason I ask is because I believe its so lost nowadays. Unconditional anything for that matter is lost. What happened to those long lasting honest and real relationships that u looked up to when u were little if it be ur parents, grandparents or a total stranger. When will that love come back?
{By unknown author}flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 11/20/09 01:59 PM

freeonthree's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:44 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Fri 11/20/09 03:46 PM
When you care about someone else, more than you do yourself.

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Fri 11/20/09 03:57 PM
Love is a verb.

bridgetjones27's photo
Fri 11/20/09 04:11 PM
being able to be yourself completely, i mean waking up with your makeup on the pillow because you went out and were to busy to wash it of, sitting watching a dvd together telling eachother i love you while you look into eachothers eyes while going at it, not having to laugh at eachothers jokes, and getting up in the morning to him looking at you not in disgust because you drooled a bit but because hes smitten (and vice verca) that is what i call love and its the best feeling.

Jimbob2's photo
Fri 11/20/09 05:19 PM
Love and sex, they belong together like wine and cheese, potatoes and gravy, cars and gasoline. Without sex, love is nothing, without love, sex is meaningless and physical.


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Fri 11/20/09 05:24 PM
love is when you put your all into whatever or whoever it may be and not worry about the consequences or if you'll succeed or not

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/21/09 10:03 PM

Love is a verb.
:thumbsup:

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Sat 11/21/09 10:22 PM
:heart: As WE ALL BELIEVE THIS HEART,,,represents LOVE.

WE only know their unity through passed down in-sights from our beginners,,,,,who all felt it,,,,but all different...

It invisible, its not anything, a feeling,a look, a taste, and touch?

WE live our lives to FIND IT, embrace-it, nurture-it, care for it.

YET, we truly have no idea of its purest form, or weakest length.

A life spent searching for what no man or woman have ever possessed

to openly show it to another.

Kind-of like GOD, wink......:heart: <---------LOVE!!!!!wink


SOMEONE,,,,quick,,,,,,take its picture!!!!!!!lol,lol:banana:

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 11/21/09 10:24 PM


:heart:Is your definition of "love" more about actions or feelings?:heart:

smile2I know the two should go hand in hand, but how do you rate how much you love someone or how much they love you?smile2


flowerforyouBy what you/they say,by what you/they feel,or by what you/they do?flowerforyou


I think it all comes down to feeling like the person is a part of you and you are a part of them and it seems like that is how it is suppose to be. For me actions speak much louder than words but that is not necessarily doing just what I want them to but that it feels like it is right.