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ok so he hasnt been around since i was 3 months pregnant. my baby is 9 months old now and i am raising her alone. i actually see him at walmart the other day as i am gathering up the few needed items to make my spaghetti that night. he approaches me and follows me through the store wanting to tell me how much he has changed and bla bla bla then says"well can i at least pay for your food?" SERIOUSLY? AFTER 9 MONTHS OF NO HELP BUYING DIAPERS OR FORMULA OR CLOTHES OR WIPES OR FOOD U REALLY WANNA OFFER TO USE YOUR FOOD STAMPS TO BUY MY 9 DOLLARS WORTH OF STUFF?!?!?!?
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Breath. And I hope you took his money!
As a single mother, who will probably never get child support.... if he is offering to pay or provide some support.. take it! |
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Breath. And I hope you took his money! As a single mother, who will probably never get child support.... if he is offering to pay or provide some support.. take it! LOOKING BACK AT IT MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE BUT I TOLD HIM H*LL NO. TGHEN STARTED YELLING THE WHOLE WHERE U BEEN FOR THE PAST 9 MONTHS AND AFTER HE GOT EMBARRASSED ENOUGH HE JUST WALKED AWAY. |
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Breath. And I hope you took his money! As a single mother, who will probably never get child support.... if he is offering to pay or provide some support.. take it! LOOKING BACK AT IT MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE BUT I TOLD HIM H*LL NO. TGHEN STARTED YELLING THE WHOLE WHERE U BEEN FOR THE PAST 9 MONTHS AND AFTER HE GOT EMBARRASSED ENOUGH HE JUST WALKED AWAY. It's tough. But maybe he needed to hear that, he just might think about it and start being a father. |
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Breath. And I hope you took his money! As a single mother, who will probably never get child support.... if he is offering to pay or provide some support.. take it! LOOKING BACK AT IT MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE BUT I TOLD HIM H*LL NO. TGHEN STARTED YELLING THE WHOLE WHERE U BEEN FOR THE PAST 9 MONTHS AND AFTER HE GOT EMBARRASSED ENOUGH HE JUST WALKED AWAY. Don't punish your kids, because you're p!ssed at the dad...he was offering to help....let him. |
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Breath. And I hope you took his money! As a single mother, who will probably never get child support.... if he is offering to pay or provide some support.. take it! LOOKING BACK AT IT MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE BUT I TOLD HIM H*LL NO. TGHEN STARTED YELLING THE WHOLE WHERE U BEEN FOR THE PAST 9 MONTHS AND AFTER HE GOT EMBARRASSED ENOUGH HE JUST WALKED AWAY. Don't punish your kids, because you're p!ssed at the dad...he was offering to help....let him. You breath too! |
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Breath. And I hope you took his money! As a single mother, who will probably never get child support.... if he is offering to pay or provide some support.. take it! LOOKING BACK AT IT MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE BUT I TOLD HIM H*LL NO. TGHEN STARTED YELLING THE WHOLE WHERE U BEEN FOR THE PAST 9 MONTHS AND AFTER HE GOT EMBARRASSED ENOUGH HE JUST WALKED AWAY. Don't punish your kids, because you're p!ssed at the dad...he was offering to help....let him. how was that punishing my kid? |
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yep, let him help..you picked him, now live with it. At least he's offering something..some never do.
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Is there a child support order in place here?
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yep, let him help..you picked him, now live with it. At least he's offering something..some never do. he offered to pay for my 9 dollars worth of food that my baby cant even eat...so where is that trying to help?? |
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Is there a child support order in place here? i wouldnt waste my time....he dont keep a job long enough to pay anything out and wont stay off the pills and drugs... |
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Everyone STOP and breath!
OOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM! |
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how was that punishing my kid? Because he at least right now is making an effort...I personally believe a kid has the right to BOTH parents...however, if you shut him down every time he tries...he will eventually give up...therefore you're taking your kids chance at having a relationship with their father....whether or not you want a relationship with him is irrevalent...let him have to opportunity to have a relationship with his kid. He offered to do something nice, you embarressed him because he offered to help? personally I say get over it. |
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Everyone STOP and breath! OOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM! ok so i dont get how everyone here thinks i am in the wrong here. sure maybe if he had offered to buy the $60 worth of baby food i bought the day before or the money to buy a box of diapers and i had turned him down, then i would be the wrong one. but he offered to buy something that is in no way related to helping with my child! |
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how was that punishing my kid? Because he at least right now is making an effort...I personally believe a kid has the right to BOTH parents...however, if you shut him down every time he tries...he will eventually give up...therefore you're taking your kids chance at having a relationship with their father....whether or not you want a relationship with him is irrevalent...let him have to opportunity to have a relationship with his kid. He offered to do something nice, you embarressed him because he offered to help? personally I say get over it. personally, i say i gave him every chance o be in our life. i put up with his lying, his cheating and his drug use because i wanted my baby to be able to have both of us in her life. but i had decided enough was enough when, last yearm i found out he had stolen my sick mothers jewelry and sold it for loritabs! |
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Everyone STOP and breath! OOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM! ok so i dont get how everyone here thinks i am in the wrong here. sure maybe if he had offered to buy the $60 worth of baby food i bought the day before or the money to buy a box of diapers and i had turned him down, then i would be the wrong one. but he offered to buy something that is in no way related to helping with my child! Because you are......he offered...even if it was little it was a step... He tried to take a step up the stairs and you pushed him back down.... |
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yep, let him help..you picked him, now live with it. At least he's offering something..some never do. he offered to pay for my 9 dollars worth of food that my baby cant even eat...so where is that trying to help?? Your post didn't state his 9 dollar offer wasn't going to help...was for food your can't use. |
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how was that punishing my kid? Because he at least right now is making an effort...I personally believe a kid has the right to BOTH parents...however, if you shut him down every time he tries...he will eventually give up...therefore you're taking your kids chance at having a relationship with their father....whether or not you want a relationship with him is irrevalent...let him have to opportunity to have a relationship with his kid. He offered to do something nice, you embarressed him because he offered to help? personally I say get over it. personally, i say i gave him every chance o be in our life. i put up with his lying, his cheating and his drug use because i wanted my baby to be able to have both of us in her life. but i had decided enough was enough when, last yearm i found out he had stolen my sick mothers jewelry and sold it for loritabs! What I see here...is 'last year' |
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If I were you, I would go to a lawyer or something and see if you can get child support
 You are entitled to that
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If I were you, I would go to a lawyer or something and see if you can get child support You are entitled to that
This I agree with for sure.... Then also if he starts to pay...maybe he really does care...at least for the kid |
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