I was at school today and as i am walkin out of the college i saw my ex- boyfriend. I was like what the crap. I didn't know what to do. All i wanted to was run but he was standing in front of me blocking my was so i couldn't run. All the feelings came rushing back. He use to make me feel like i was speacial; until he cheated on me with a best friend of mine. He told me that he loves me and that he still want to marry me and be in love. I don't know what to do. I want to say yes but i cannot forgive him for what he did. What would you do?

If it is something you can get passed, then it won't work. You will always hold it against him

I've always said "One and done".

I don't know if i can. It was with my maid of honor a week before my wedding.

it is up to you to be forgiven you must forgive and if you love him you will if not just try to forget him i cant stay away from my last love no matter what i do and i am still in love with her this will be like the 4th time we have dated it never ends well but we always find our way back to each others arms the time we spend together i would not trade 4 the world but i know it will hurt me in the end it is hared but you must decide and if you do forgive him of what he did that means not putting it in his face when you get mad it took me a long time to realize that if you do it is not forgiveness keep trying and dont give up good luck

both people are screwing you..it will happen again

people sucks huh!? a week before the wedding and with the best mate. if you do take him back make him do something like....pay for everything...if he cheats....bounce and take half lol.

Keep walkin' and don't look back.

sorry, but in my book...once a cheat always a cheat!..call him history..your better then that.

I don't get how someone can look at a person who cheated on them and still have feelings for them, believe that he/she just accidentally did it (and it will never happen again..they swear), and think that "this time it will be different". Maybe, in a small percentage of cases, there is truth to it. Maybe. But you stated that this was with your Maid Of Honor the week before you were to be wed correct? Ummmmmm....dude would have been walking away with one less nut if he had done that to some ladies that I know.

Honestly, you need to just be assertive for yourself and let him see that what he did was wrong, and that you will not allow him back into your life. If he senses that he can do this, then come back to you....chances are that he will do it again. Yeah, he will say he won't. But the statistics do not lie. It has been proven that a cheater will cheat again. And in your case. The act itself (one week before the wedding with your Maid Of Honor? That should equal no second chance in hell for him.

I couldn't have said it better myself.

Was he saying all that just because he HAPPENED to run into you?

oh no I mean oh hell no.. do you give him another chance.
To be quite honest I would have kicked the supposedly best friend in the gutter. That isn't what Best friends to do one another.

As for him, leave him where you left him in the trash... You deserve so much more than that in your life.

Sure you still have feelings, they are for what should or might have been not the present.

Good luck