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Topic: Would You Just Leave Them?
Ashley92's photo
Sun 11/15/09 11:25 PM
Twice I've had guys just walk out of a relationship without saying anything. Nothing. They never said anything was wrong...

Oh and better yet, the last one I found on here.

Why would anyone do that to someone? Its just not right.


msharmony's photo
Sun 11/15/09 11:27 PM
Sometimes they just want to take the easy road and not deal with explanation or accountability. I had the same experience here with someone who apparently already had a girl. My advice is to thank God you found out sooner than later and keep trekking,,,,

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Sun 11/15/09 11:29 PM
Trying to figure out why someone left you is a waste of time and it will only prolong your pain. Consider them a coward and move on, it happens to most people at one time or another.flowerforyou

Ashley92's photo
Sun 11/15/09 11:30 PM
Edited by Ashley92 on Sun 11/15/09 11:31 PM
Yeah. I think I might be almost done though. I don't want to do that anymore you know?

Maybe I'll just become a nun. Then I wouldn't have to worry about anything haha...

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Sun 11/15/09 11:32 PM

Yeah. I think I might be almost done though. I don't want to do that anymore you know?

Maybe I'll just become a nun. Then I wouldn't have to worry about anything haha...


You're only 18, you have your whole life ahead of you. Try to focus on the good things in your life and relax and have fun; you have forever to find love.

Ashley92's photo
Sun 11/15/09 11:33 PM
lol no one is gaurenteed forever. But yeah I'm just focusing my efforts elsewhere. Decided to paint my room to get my mind off of everything. =) thanks

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Sun 11/15/09 11:36 PM
You're welcome. Good luck.

Mayhem_J's photo
Sun 11/15/09 11:41 PM
Cause men are a**holes.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 11/15/09 11:45 PM
Some guys are just weak...........spock :laughing: or shall we say shallow, uuummmm maybe stupid! Anyway DON"T let them back! slaphead Whatever you do flowerforyou

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 11/15/09 11:46 PM

Cause men are a**holes.
laugh :wink: Your MY personal A**HOLE :laughing: spock :thumbsup: but I only have the BEST! :thumbsup:

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Mon 11/16/09 06:46 AM

Trying to figure out why someone left you is a waste of time and it will only prolong your pain. Consider them a coward and move on, it happens to most people at one time or another.flowerforyou


Very true!

Communication takes effort, not to mention a certain level of communications skills, and that is something which many people lack. If they're not willing or able to talk to you about the situation, then that's someone not worth wasting any time on anyway.


catseyes1's photo
Mon 11/16/09 07:33 AM


Yeah. I think I might be almost done though. I don't want to do that anymore you know?

Maybe I'll just become a nun. Then I wouldn't have to worry about anything haha...


You're only 18, you have your whole life ahead of you. Try to focus on the good things in your life and relax and have fun; you have forever to find love.


Well said :thumbsup: You are just beginning your life - Don't give up so soon and don't be in a hurry to find love. Take your time and enjoy life.

Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 11/16/09 07:36 AM
just write em off and keep going

be thankful to them

for showing you their true colors early on instead of waiting till they got to know your family and account numbers and stuff

they were doing you a favor in a way

tanyaann's photo
Mon 11/16/09 07:52 AM
You are still young and will learn. That it's better not to question why and just consider yourself lucky that they walked. Because if they we the 'one' or worth the relationship, they would have been open and honest.

lonetar25's photo
Mon 11/16/09 07:52 AM
if peter had 47p and jhon had 32p. what is the square route of a potato

Ashley92's photo
Mon 11/16/09 01:28 PM
Thanks ya'll =)

parttime_vikingfan's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:00 PM
You will have to start picking guys with some balls

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:11 PM

Twice I've had guys just walk out of a relationship without saying anything. Nothing. They never said anything was wrong...

Oh and better yet, the last one I found on here.

Why would anyone do that to someone? Its just not right.




Maybe they told you but you just were not listening. If it has happen twice, and because of your age, I think it is possible you are misinterpreting their interest in having an actual relationship. What is likely is you are way more into them than they are you all along.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:33 PM

lol no one is gaurenteed forever. But yeah I'm just focusing my efforts elsewhere. Decided to paint my room to get my mind off of everything. =) thanks


Forever doesn't exist, unless you read fairytales. Life is what you make it, not dependent on someone else's view or opinion. No one can complete anyone no matter how much some may think it possible, you can't be complete when you rely that heavily on another person. Take it with a grain of salt and continue on your way...they already have.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:38 PM
He's just not that into you.

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