Topic: hate it when
Avellana's photo
Sat 11/14/09 07:29 AM

some times they have good advice i just dont want to listen to it

I'm sure it comes from a good place and they care about you. However, i hear what you are saying, and you need to make your own mistakes in life and see where the path takes you.

no photo
Sat 11/14/09 07:32 AM


...what we have here is a failure to communicate..smokin

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 11/14/09 07:43 AM
There is a difference between leading and giving advice. Sometimes the old folks may have some insight into the future. Don't let leftover teenage rebellion keep you from gleaning some knowledge out of this insight.

Quietman_2009's photo
Sat 11/14/09 08:52 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sat 11/14/09 08:52 AM

dont you hate it when every one else tries to lead your life for you frustrated


mehhhh


never happens to me

I do what I want to do when I want to do it and anyone that doesn't like it best just get out of my way

I AM the irresistable force

LewisW123's photo
Sat 11/14/09 08:56 AM

some times they have good advice i just dont want to listen to it


Do you ever admit that to them?

no photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:34 AM
depends I guess,
if they pay your bail... I would think they have the right to chew on your butt a bit.

If- how one is living their life is hurting other around them in any way.. I think it is a loving person that will point out what you may not see yourself.

advice is one thing, nagging is another.

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:38 AM
Yes,

My mom tried that for awhile, I didn't really stand up until she crossed the line, she really liked this girl who was a friend, I had NO romantic interest in her whatsoever...well I left for a weekend and found out my mom moved her into my house while I was gone!

Moral...Stand up, tell them thanks but no thanks I think I candle it. Good luck

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:39 AM

When You're Under My Roof You Will Do As I Saywhoa

This one I agree with sorryflowerforyou

Avellana's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:46 AM

Yes,

My mom tried that for awhile, I didn't really stand up until she crossed the line, she really liked this girl who was a friend, I had NO romantic interest in her whatsoever...well I left for a weekend and found out my mom moved her into my house while I was gone!

Moral...Stand up, tell them thanks but no thanks I think I candle it. Good luck


Wow, that's insane. What did you do when you got back?

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:47 AM


Yes,

My mom tried that for awhile, I didn't really stand up until she crossed the line, she really liked this girl who was a friend, I had NO romantic interest in her whatsoever...well I left for a weekend and found out my mom moved her into my house while I was gone!

Moral...Stand up, tell them thanks but no thanks I think I candle it. Good luck


Wow, that's insane. What did you do when you got back?

She was a good friend, I helped her find another place to stay. Then had a 'chat' with my mom.

Avellana's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:50 AM



Yes,

My mom tried that for awhile, I didn't really stand up until she crossed the line, she really liked this girl who was a friend, I had NO romantic interest in her whatsoever...well I left for a weekend and found out my mom moved her into my house while I was gone!

Moral...Stand up, tell them thanks but no thanks I think I candle it. Good luck


Wow, that's insane. What did you do when you got back?

She was a good friend, I helped her find another place to stay. Then had a 'chat' with my mom.


What a nice guy you are. :smile:

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:51 AM

What a nice guy you are. :smile:

My mom really didn't think so after that 'chat'!

no photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:52 AM


What a nice guy you are. :smile:

My mom really didn't think so after that 'chat'!


since your Mom liked her so much,
You should have moved her in with your Mom!

Avellana's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:54 AM


What a nice guy you are. :smile:

My mom really didn't think so after that 'chat'!


Haha I can only imagine. Sure you have been forgiven though.flowerforyou

Edy_ca's photo
Sat 11/14/09 10:47 AM
i hate when i'm in the store and i say "excuse me" and the person only moves an inch wtf

RKISIT's photo
Sat 11/14/09 10:49 AM

no matter what you do you r wrong it stinks
sounds like alot of people on herelaugh drinker

catseyes1's photo
Sat 11/14/09 02:33 PM
Yes, but I don't let anybody run my life except me.....

jessehodgejr's photo
Sat 11/14/09 02:39 PM

depends I guess,
if they pay your bail... I would think they have the right to chew on your butt a bit.

If- how one is living their life is hurting other around them in any way.. I think it is a loving person that will point out what you may not see yourself.

advice is one thing, nagging is another.
ya they do

juniemoon2001's photo
Sat 11/14/09 07:40 PM
This sounds like my Mom. She kisses you on one cheek and slaps you on the other. If you tell her you had a busy day, she'll tell you that you need to take it easy. If you tell her you goofed off all day, she'll tell you that you need to suck it up and get on with what needs to be done. You can never win. Once upon a time my ex-husband broke his finger. I told her. She said, "That's nothing. I ALMOST broke my whatever!" How can an "almost" top a "did break"? It'll drive you crazy.

tohyup's photo
Sat 11/14/09 07:43 PM
If they love me and they care about me it is worth pretending that I am listening to their nagging and orders.....laugh .