little miss sunshine...or someone a wee bit darker?

So dark that I can barely see anything else would be a good change of pace. Someone so lost that they cling to death or nothingness or self-loathing would be best, as sometimes they tend to get stuck in the grip of the vicious circle that the downward spiral can turn into. So that I could help them escape the loops. I don't fully understand it myself, but I like helping people and my community, even though I have lost everything.

well dang it man and I thought I had problems..you win...

depends....which one gets naked eaier?

they are both naked...actually they are both the same person..with different personalities...which one would you chose...

whichever was in charge at the moment is fine for now. no need to complicate matters by involving the other yet.

Hard to say, because there are different factors that can attract me to a woman. I have dated both types, and each was a good and bad experience.

Look, I simply would want a woman that (a) attracts me. Nothing wrong with physically being attracted to her, but if it stops there, then I know that all it is is a lustful feeling. Therefore, nothing more than a physical relatiionship will transpire. (b) She and I have to connect by being "oddballs". Look, I am a kid at heart, will never grow up, and I like it that way. No, I don't have kids and I probably never will, but I stay a kid (at heart) because simple, silly things make me smile. Keep me happy. (c) Doesn't want to change me. I am me. What you see is what you get. I know. I know. I am a complex person. I dress like a prep, am silly in nature, one day I am jamming out to disco, the next Manson or some heavy stuff, and then the next day it is Johnny Cash....I am just different. But it is who I am. And if she can't accept that, then adios.

I know this sounds crazy...it is like I am dealing with dark and light...who am I really...which way do I turn...

Oh neither, ride the middle ground. Both in equal measure is the best if you have to split. Try putting your tongue on the roof of your mouth more often. Try it in dreaming.

say what? I don't understand nothing you just said..please explain a little clearer..I really welcome the help...

Come toward the light!!

I know huh..if it were only so easy...

As long as she loves me . Cooks me Peruvian food from time to time and is not a lunachick . Its all good :-)

Yeah...gotta go with the wee bit darker side of the coin. Little miss sunshine scares the hell outta me cause thats the ones with the bodies buried in the basment

I would prefer if she wasn't one dimension so would choose both as long as she knows when to be dark and when to be miss sunshine.

so it is ok to be both huh...wow I like this answer..I am under tons of pressure things I can't really go into...

cheery but twisted. just a little.
like amy adams' character in Sunshine Cleaning. she's cute and nice but she cleans crime scenes.


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dark why the hell not

I watched that movie last night...very odd yet funny movie....her character was cute and twisted...

Hmm little miss sunshine I think would be boring & something darker comes with mental problems, I know I was married to one like that.... so something in the middle!