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Topic: Got Darn it how do i start this!!!
Goofball73's photo
Sun 11/08/09 10:02 PM


Say "ballsac"....it works everytime on the ladies.laugh laugh laugh


Ohhhhhhh, baby!
pitchfork



Ahhhhh....gets em everytime.laugh laugh

tundraguy's photo
Sun 11/08/09 10:03 PM
yeah, if they are going to like you it has to be YOU they like. and if they are going to be fake and shallow then you were better off not talking to them. be yourself have fun with it and go from there.

reckmen's photo
Sun 11/08/09 10:17 PM
i guess ill try all of these tips............ well not saying ballsac..........imiditately.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 11/08/09 11:21 PM

i want to learn becuase i noticed when you dont talk alot people just randomly start thinking your going to kill them or something like that an im just sitting down drinking coco.


For one...use that sense of humor. That was a pretty funny line. That kind of thing could work well for you.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 11/08/09 11:32 PM
Asking yes or no questions are not going to get a conversation going. "How are you?" is a bad question because the standard is to just say fine. You have to ask a question that needs a little more info to be and answer. An opinion or and explanation. Then you build on the answer you get.

You will have more to talk about if you read the daily news. And develope your interests.

Telling somone something you have done or know is not bragging.

Italy0219's photo
Sun 11/08/09 11:34 PM
It sounds like you actually got your act pretty well together, you work and have a good job(s), and it sounds like you are a listener and not a talker, which is fine. When you are talking with someone let them do most of the talking and if need be talk about what you love, your work etc. It will happen, your still so young, you have all the time in the world, don't rush it. You are prolly a little shy, don't worry, some girls like that, just relax and be yourself.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 11/08/09 11:35 PM
:smile: Tell them you are a Nice Guy:smile:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 11/08/09 11:39 PM

:smile: Tell them you are a Nice Guy:smile:


Shame on you, Mirror.

LOL

galendgirl's photo
Mon 11/09/09 07:20 AM


:smile: Tell them you are a Nice Guy:smile:


Shame on you, Mirror.

LOL


You two are SOOOOoooooo bad!
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Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 11/09/09 08:14 AM

ok im kinda newish to the dating game and human interaction in general. i want to know how to strike up a conversation. i dont normaly talk to people and when i do its nothing more than a how was your day....... thats good............... ok bye. im not that much of a brager and i try not to act like one so i dont really get bragers that like to talk back.i want to learn becuase i noticed when you dont talk alot people just randomly start thinking your going to kill them or something like that an im just sitting down drinking coco.


I have that problem all the time

I don't talk much and people think I'm going to kill them

Roco's photo
Mon 11/09/09 09:33 PM
find some common ground and go from there..

AngieH79's photo
Wed 11/11/09 04:26 PM
Aww, go with the cheesy pick-up lines. If pulled off with a sense of humor I'd laugh and you would have my attention.

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