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Topic: Do you take responsiblity for your own actions...
BABCHI's photo
Thu 11/05/09 05:37 AM

This can be used in different ways, but since it's a dating site. I wonder how many people actually take resonsiblity for their actions when things don't work out as far as dating goes.




For me it is yes. I usually walk away with kindness I am told.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 11/05/09 05:44 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Thu 11/05/09 05:45 AM
Yes I do

But this last time

Geez

Wouldn't take any blame!! Played victim very well!! (and lied about me--mama MIA!)

Lilypetal's photo
Thu 11/05/09 05:50 AM
Yes I do. As a manager, in the work place, I take responsibility for others actions as well. You shouldn't play the blame game...just analyze it and try to learn from it.

May777's photo
Thu 11/05/09 07:20 AM


This can be used in different ways, but since it's a dating site. I wonder how many people actually take responsibility for their actions when things don't work out as far as dating goes.




I dated a guy from here.....for a short time. He had LOTS of issues that I couldn't deal with. I felt like I was being asked to raise another son! I was nice too him and maybe some day; he will find someone that will suit him better. I felt bad being "honest" because I know it hurt him. I took the responsibility of making the decision to let go; before my anger took over!


I give you credit for having the guts to be honest,...( and look after yourself ) it may hurt him now,..but help him out down the road..if he learns anything,.

silly's photo
Thu 11/05/09 07:44 AM
yes,I didn't always but now I do.After all I'm not perfect.:smile:

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Thu 11/05/09 08:33 AM


This can be used in different ways, but since it's a dating site. I wonder how many people actually take resonsiblity for their actions when things don't work out as far as dating goes.




Things may simply not work out, there is not a match. In this case the idea of someone taking responsibity for their actions does not apply.


Daytime, I love your profile pic and the other of Mary. Very nice. flowerforyou

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Thu 11/05/09 10:30 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Thu 11/05/09 10:31 AM

This can be used in different ways, but since it's a dating site. I wonder how many people actually take resonsiblity for their actions when things don't work out as far as dating goes.




It all his fault. rant rant tongue2 waving


laugh laugh Just kidding.

Any man crazy enough to want a relationship with me should not be roaming around free.

TheShadow's photo
Mon 11/09/09 05:05 PM
Like most i'm still learning things as life goes on. Each relationship is different, and taking responsibilty for my actions has open my eyes up to this last one I when through. Now being who i am and the siuation i went through. It would be easy to blame the other, but i know better today.

The main reason I brought this topic up is because how many times you will see how man/woman bring up topic's about, is there any good men/women out there and so on. It makes me wonder how many people date a lot of people of dating sites and things never seem to work out as they hope for as you see them post the same questions as many do over and over. Thesepeople are why i mainly take responsibility for my actions. I don't want to keep going to the next if you were to say.

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Mon 11/09/09 06:03 PM



This can be used in different ways, but since it's a dating site. I wonder how many people actually take responsibility for their actions when things don't work out as far as dating goes.




I dated a guy from here.....for a short time. He had LOTS of issues that I couldn't deal with. I felt like I was being asked to raise another son! I was nice too him and maybe some day; he will find someone that will suit him better. I felt bad being "honest" because I know it hurt him. I took the responsibility of making the decision to let go; before my anger took over!


I give you credit for having the guts to be honest,...( and look after yourself ) it may hurt him now,..but help him out down the road..if he learns anything,.

Thanks. I hate having to "hurt" anyone; but honesty was the best for both of us.

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