I want to be the world to one person.....and not one person to the whole world. Is that so much to ask? Why is it so hard to find someone that's "real" who has a no ******** attitude and isn't in it for the hit it and quit it lifestyle. When i'm in a relationship I invest my whole self into it... I just want to be able to share my heart with someone who is worthy.

It takes time but we are out here

I hear ya girl

yep..I want to adore and be adored ...

<--------still looking for the sign-up sheet...

go for a new type of guy. you keep looking for the same type of guy,your just going to get the same thing again. people like that tend to be pretty much the same. my 2 cents.

It's true, rockette; most lovers just want to shaft you. No pun intended. They come to you from the front with open arms and luv in their eyes, and the moment you turn around, they stick it into you (no pun intended) and then a little while late they leave by the back door, the same way that they'd entered. (No pun intended.)

They all should be hanged. The sad thing is that the men who do that sort of thing to many women and get away with are already hung. (No pun intended.)

blah being the world to someone, you are young and should be enjoying the many flavors of personalities that are out there. Not looking for that specail someone. If you look it likes to hide.

besides i have been the world to a few people and when you dont want to be with them anymore can you take destoring that world?

We're out here. Just don't give up hope, as hard as it may be.

I've never been anyone's world....interesting concept...

i don`t believe you

Please, allow me to demonstrate what MIGHT be happening to you in your searches.

If you start a conversation with any man, it might be seen as a BIT REBELLIOUS to say the two words,,
BIT%HY ATTITUDE....


You see my dear as to try and START with an opening line like that one might guess you to be a bit tight eared or excessively out spoken,,,,MAYBE? Which keeps good guys going and bad guys coming,wink,,
Just a THOUGHT!!!!!

But I am glad you came.....

I think being someone's world border's on asking for trouble because then you become so obsessed with them and vice versa you crowd out the other people in your world and that really isn't healthy. It can be really dangerous if the person wants to control your life.

SHE"S MINE,,,,,ALL MINE,,,,STAY BACK JACK!!!!!!!

finally, some one bold enough to contest the world and their fear attachments, of commitment and discipline. i hope you find your world, and he finds you, in a union so perfect even strangers will be stricken with envy.

thanks

I feel you. I mean, when pple ask me if I have a "type" I always say no. Honestly, I don't like the monotony of "the same guy." Im just as unique as the next person I hope to find that in someone else as well.

I always like the same type of guy, the one who is ever so dreamy....

That whole concept just freaks, and creeps me out.


If I happen apon someone who I feel good about, and comfortable with to keep.. I dont wanna be anything but a compliment to their life.


I dont wanna be anyones world.. thats crazy.


You might expect that from a young child,.. but even that child will need more than that eventually.


Everyone in MY world needs to have their own life, and the majority of their world better not be me.. besides.. who the hell needs all that pressure?

Obsession? NO THANKS!

Inevitably both parties will be disapointed. Sounds co-dependant.

Personally, I cant make relatioship plans without a partner.

Whats wanted? The partner? or the idea of having one, and the romantisisim of it all?

Okay. Time for some schooling here. Yes, I am about to rant.

I am growing tired of this whole "I want a guy that is real" thing that seems to be like a hot topic here on Mingle lately. Used to be the topic was "Why do women like bad boys?", but now we have this current topic. Know why I am growing tired of it? It is simple. Because it seems that when someone posts this topic, they are either very young, or just had there heart broken, or blah, blah, blah.

Listen. The whole concept of being with someone is based around wanting to either compliment them, or (for the OP) wanting to be there world. No matter how you say it, don't you think that this is what the majority of people want?

Bad things happen to good people, especially in dating. I have had my heart broken before, and you know what (and I am not proud of it) I have broken someone's heart as well (I knew it was the best for us both, but it still hurt). Yes, people get frustrated because they are looking and then...BAM...they believe they have found the right one. They give of themselves, and feel that they have found true love...only to have it blow up in there face.

I am ranting because I feel that life is way too darn short to be whining here. I can sit back, complain, whine that there are nothing but bad women out there, but you know something? I don't do that. Look, I was married to a woman for nine years, and I dated her six years before we got married. I spent half of my life with this woman, thinking she was the one. Only, in the end, she decided I wasn't, and it took her two months to replace me. That hurt, and I dealt with it and moved on. Was it easy? Hell no it wasn't. But I am not about to let my life stop because of something that she decided. She didn't want me anymore. Ok, well, deal with it and move along, and that is what I did.

My point is this. Life is about a journey. Yes, you want someone to love, and I am happy you want that. I want the same thing (one day). But instead of getting frustrated and venting, just live life man. Have fun. Date some guys, and don't think that each one has the potential to be the guy you think is right for you. Heck, you might meet the man of your dreams on this site. It can happen. Take care of you for now, and when the right guy comes along, you will know what to do.