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Topic: Scared To Love
lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3531	Mon 11/02/09 07:26 PM
firstly, you need to get hold of those little foam blocks that the dentist use to stop you biteing down. now, wait till they`re asleep and pop your thing in their mouth, then put the foam blocks in(you dont want to forget the blocks) now, wake them up it may not help, there are no garuntees. but it sure is funny

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Mon 11/02/09 07:26 PM
The people that are scared to love probably has some issues that they are having a hard time dealing with. Being their friend and showing them you care (without pushing) is probably the best thing anyone could do.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 11/02/09 07:27 PM
Scare them into loving you

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 11/02/09 07:29 PM
They are not "scared to love". They just aren't that into you. Yea there might be an element of that too. Least they might be trying to be nice and making it their "fault".

silly Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2789	Mon 11/02/09 07:32 PM Edited by silly on Mon 11/02/09 07:46 PM
Just be patience with them.let them know that u can trust them.Don't rush them into anything,take things slowly. it just might be worth it.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/02/09 07:34 PM
How do you break through to someone who is scared to love? If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears? Be real. Be patient. Be honest. Be kind.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/02/09 07:38 PM
firstly, you need to get hold of those little foam blocks that the dentist use to stop you biteing down. now, wait till they`re asleep and pop your thing in their mouth, then put the foam blocks in(you dont want to forget the blocks) now, wake them up it may not help, there are no garuntees. but it sure is funny

lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3531	Mon 11/02/09 07:47 PM
some say R.E.S.P.E.C.T i say R.O.H.I.P.N.O.L got a stubborn friend? need a quick fix? want to help your friend get over it??? rohipnol, the date rape drug of choice

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/02/09 07:50 PM
Scare them into loving you

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Mon 11/02/09 07:56 PM
I would say I too am such a person...for the closer someone gets to me...the faster I pull away... WOW,,,,making LOVE to you,,MUST BE A REAL CHALLENGE!!!!lol <--------HE made me say that.....wink,,I just had to jump on that,,,,,sorry

motorcyclesandmusic Joined Wed 10/21/09 Posts: 198	Mon 11/02/09 07:56 PM
Hugs are nice.

Meg8771 Joined Fri 01/16/09 Posts: 5662	Mon 11/02/09 08:04 PM
You have to take things slow...remain constant in what you say and do. If you become erratic with your words and behavior, you will loose any progress you/they have made. Be consistent.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 11/02/09 08:09 PM
If someone tells me they're scared to love, I leave them alone.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Mon 11/02/09 08:10 PM
How do you break through to someone who is scared to love? If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears? Most who would SAY their scared, are really just not ready yet to WANT TO fall in love again. And you can help them to see you better and your values and heart. But if they saw THAT in you in the first place then they would have told you that fear,,,really. When one falls,,,,,,,they have NO FEARS,,,,,just their desires to be, with that person. Many say 'I am scared to let go,,,,to fall again. It hurt to much before. Then YOU have to PROVE to them that your REAL, and that YOU won't hurt them......CAN YOU do THAT,,,and know YOU WON'T? Because a heart is a terrible thing to crush.... And unless you really feel all THAT......then I would walk away, as to take a chance of hurting her again. Just my opinion man.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 11/02/09 08:12 PM


silly Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2789	Mon 11/02/09 08:23 PM
How do you break through to someone who is scared to love? If you are scared to go into a relationship because of your past experiences,is there anything a person can do to help ease your fears? Most who would SAY their scared, are really just not ready yet to WANT TO fall in love again. And you can help them to see you better and your values and heart. But if they saw THAT in you in the first place then they would have told you that fear,,,really. When one falls,,,,,,,they have NO FEARS,,,,,just their desires to be, with that person. Many say 'I am scared to let go,,,,to fall again. It hurt to much before. Then YOU have to PROVE to them that your REAL, and that YOU won't hurt them......CAN YOU do THAT,,,and know YOU WON'T? Because a heart is a terrible thing to crush.... And unless you really feel all THAT......then I would walk away, as to take a chance of hurting her again. Just my opinion man.

peladac Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 5099	Mon 11/02/09 08:27 PM
They are not "scared to love". They just aren't that into you. could be Yes, maybe in some cases but not all.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/02/09 08:28 PM
They are not "scared to love". They just aren't that into you. Yea there might be an element of that too. Least they might be trying to be nice and making it their "fault".

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/02/09 08:28 PM
Just be patience with them.let them know that u can trust them.Don't rush them into anything,take things slowly. it just might be worth it.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/02/09 08:30 PM
some say R.E.S.P.E.C.T i say R.O.H.I.P.N.O.L got a stubborn friend? need a quick fix? want to help your friend get over it??? rohipnol, the date rape drug of choice