Topic: 40 and starting over .. help with profile
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Thu 10/29/09 07:41 AM
How do I write a great results profile about me? I am 40 and starting over. Was married, learned alot, back to re start a life. How do I attract someone similar? Someone who has learned and not just starting for the first time? How do I put this out there without seeming like I have tons of baggage? (Which I don't, just history) I dont really want to post a pic but would provide one later. So any one have some advice that works ?

artman48's photo
Thu 10/29/09 07:43 AM
I'm 61 and starting over--can't help ya--sorrysmokin

egoodrich's photo
Thu 10/29/09 07:47 AM
really by not posting a pic, you are limiting your chances greatly. the pic is the 1st thing people see when searching profiles, and most people opt for having pictureless profiles rejected by their searches, thus eliminating your profile all together. i would strongly reconcider not providing one if i were you.

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Thu 10/29/09 07:55 AM
Pics are a factor but so is your profile. Be yourself, tell them you have been around the block and now you are on the otherside of the block and want someone to go around that block with you. Just let it flow..."MELT AND BE LIKE A RUNNING BROOK THAT SINGS ITS MELODY INTO THE NIGHT"!!!

PJBens1964's photo
Thu 10/29/09 10:13 AM
You really should add a picture... especially for women... sometimes you get an instant "feel" from seeing someone... and dont worry about opening up about your past... we all have one... just state, truthfully, what you are looking for in a woman.... the right one will be out there....good luck... :)

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 10/29/09 12:00 PM
Pics are easier I guess

I went 6months without one and I did great !

Welcome


Tammy:heart:

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Sat 10/31/09 08:36 AM
Edited by fromtoronto on Sat 10/31/09 08:38 AM
Thanks, I posted one , but made it not easily reconizable but it gives the feel of me?

I am not to the point of posting a full pic.

I also changed and let it out in profile, shared much more.... Think it works? Dont want to get into the fact that she had an affair and was depressed and life sucked for 2 years .... but thought I shared enough...?

Better? Not looking to attract messages just looking for one person who is well matched if they exist here.