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maybe but some men look for intelligence Fortunately that is true. And it is those who become my friends...the others who contact me lose interest rapidly. As far as email buddies go....age matters very little. Dating is another matter...I am not very comfortable with a much greater than 10 year gap in either direction, as there is just not as much in common. When I was 20, of course, I would go only 10 years older.. 
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She's not saying its OLD..its just too old for HER is all. Dearheart, I appreciate your sentiment, but she actually did not say what you claim she's said. I quoted her for the reason in case I needed to prove that. You see, when you get old enough like me, you know exactly what's going to come next, ahead of time. I'm ancient. Looks like I'm ready for the great swinger's party in the sky. Um..ok..if you say so. BWAAAAW! Mwawawahaa bwamamamawaha! Now you're calling me old, too! Nope..I didn't call you old |
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She's not saying its OLD..its just too old for HER is all. Dearheart, I appreciate your sentiment, but she actually did not say what you claim she's said. I quoted her for the reason in case I needed to prove that. You see, when you get old enough like me, you know exactly what's going to come next, ahead of time. I'm ancient. Looks like I'm ready for the great swinger's party in the sky. Um..ok..if you say so. BWAAAAW! Mwawawahaa bwamamamawaha! Now you're calling me old, too! Nope..I didn't call you old Okay. So I am old and a liar. What else? Ugly? Smelly? Hermeneutical? |
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I don't get the guys who are insulted because someone considers them too old to talk to, who cares? You shouldn't want to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you; I'm sure there are types of women that you'd rather left you alone, so what's the big deal? I've had men ignore emails from me for certain reasons, but do I care? Um, nope, I figure screw 'em, I just talk to guys who do like talking to me.
No one is obligated to interact with or be "friends" with anyone else. I ignore emails and nudges from men that I don't want to talk to all the time, and if they're offended by that, because they consider themselves to be amazing, despite the fact that I consider them too old, too young, the wrong ethnicity, from the wrong country, ignorant, illiterate, perverted, burdened with baggage, too ugly, too fat, or just plain stupid, oh well, too bad. 
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She's not saying its OLD..its just too old for HER is all. Dearheart, I appreciate your sentiment, but she actually did not say what you claim she's said. I quoted her for the reason in case I needed to prove that. You see, when you get old enough like me, you know exactly what's going to come next, ahead of time. I'm ancient. Looks like I'm ready for the great swinger's party in the sky. Um..ok..if you say so. BWAAAAW! Mwawawahaa bwamamamawaha! Now you're calling me old, too! Nope..I didn't call you old Okay. So I am old and a liar. What else? Ugly? Smelly? Hermeneutical? Alrighty.... |
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Edited by
wux
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Tue 10/27/09 03:52 PM
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She's not saying its OLD..its just too old for HER is all. Dearheart, I appreciate your sentiment, but she actually did not say what you claim she's said. I quoted her for the reason in case I needed to prove that. You see, when you get old enough like me, you know exactly what's going to come next, ahead of time. I'm ancient. Looks like I'm ready for the great swinger's party in the sky. Um..ok..if you say so. BWAAAAW! Mwawawahaa bwamamamawaha! Now you're calling me old, too! Nope..I didn't call you old Okay. So I am old and a liar. What else? Ugly? Smelly? Hermeneutical? Alrighty.... Thank you, very nice of you, but no, I'm not the Almighty. For instance, my vision is not so good any more. |
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She's not saying its OLD..its just too old for HER is all. Dearheart, I appreciate your sentiment, but she actually did not say what you claim she's said. I quoted her for the reason in case I needed to prove that. You see, when you get old enough like me, you know exactly what's going to come next, ahead of time. I'm ancient. Looks like I'm ready for the great swinger's party in the sky. Um..ok..if you say so. BWAAAAW! Mwawawahaa bwamamamawaha! Now you're calling me old, too! Nope..I didn't call you old Okay. So I am old and a liar. What else? Ugly? Smelly? Hermeneutical? Alrighty.... Thank you, very nice of you, but no, I'm not the Almighty. For instance, my vision is not so good any more. That was an R..not an M..lol. |
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thanks everbody
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I don't get the guys who are insulted because someone considers them too old to talk to, who cares? You shouldn't want to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you; I'm sure there are types of women that you'd rather left you alone, so what's the big deal? I've had men ignore emails from me for certain reasons, but do I care? Um, nope, I figure screw 'em, I just talk to guys who do like talking to me. In my experience, I've noticed that people tend to choose to feel insulted only when the exclusionary person is someone they might be interested in. I tend to get cursed at a lot because I've always tried to be clear about the tpe of person I'm looking for, and the type I'm NOT looking for. The ones who fall into the NOT category always seem to want to take it personally, as if my preferences were set up solely to exclude this one particular person....! |
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I don't get the guys who are insulted because someone considers them too old to talk to, who cares? You shouldn't want to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you; I'm sure there are types of women that you'd rather left you alone, so what's the big deal? I've had men ignore emails from me for certain reasons, but do I care? Um, nope, I figure screw 'em, I just talk to guys who do like talking to me. In my experience, I've noticed that people tend to choose to feel insulted only when the exclusionary person is someone they might be interested in. I tend to get cursed at a lot because I've always tried to be clear about the tpe of person I'm looking for, and the type I'm NOT looking for. The ones who fall into the NOT category always seem to want to take it personally, as if my preferences were set up solely to exclude this one particular person....! Yeah, I love it when people take rejection personally, it's like ooohhh they're so important. Actually that might be true, I just canceled my membership on another site because a guy requested me and his pic scared the hell out of me, as well as the idea that others like him would do the same. So maybe the rejectees are that important.....but not in a good way.
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I don't get the guys who are insulted because someone considers them too old to talk to, who cares? You shouldn't want to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you; I'm sure there are types of women that you'd rather left you alone, so what's the big deal? I've had men ignore emails from me for certain reasons, but do I care? Um, nope, I figure screw 'em, I just talk to guys who do like talking to me. In my experience, I've noticed that people tend to choose to feel insulted only when the exclusionary person is someone they might be interested in. I tend to get cursed at a lot because I've always tried to be clear about the tpe of person I'm looking for, and the type I'm NOT looking for. The ones who fall into the NOT category always seem to want to take it personally, as if my preferences were set up solely to exclude this one particular person....! Yeah, I love it when people take rejection personally, it's like ooohhh they're so important. Actually that might be true, I just canceled my membership on another site because a guy requested me and his pic scared the hell out of me, as well as the idea that others like him would do the same. So maybe the rejectees are that important.....but not in a good way.
This is the thing I can't quite grasp: someone will write to me and lambaste me over one of my deal-breakers. I only really have three, so it's not like there are a lot to choose from. Then they will say something like "So what you're really saying is I'm not good enough." Where does THAT come from? Who ever said anything about "good enough"? It's just a question of qualifying or not. |
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I don't get the guys who are insulted because someone considers them too old to talk to, who cares? You shouldn't want to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you; I'm sure there are types of women that you'd rather left you alone, so what's the big deal? I've had men ignore emails from me for certain reasons, but do I care? Um, nope, I figure screw 'em, I just talk to guys who do like talking to me. In my experience, I've noticed that people tend to choose to feel insulted only when the exclusionary person is someone they might be interested in. I tend to get cursed at a lot because I've always tried to be clear about the tpe of person I'm looking for, and the type I'm NOT looking for. The ones who fall into the NOT category always seem to want to take it personally, as if my preferences were set up solely to exclude this one particular person....! Yeah, I love it when people take rejection personally, it's like ooohhh they're so important. Actually that might be true, I just canceled my membership on another site because a guy requested me and his pic scared the hell out of me, as well as the idea that others like him would do the same. So maybe the rejectees are that important.....but not in a good way.
This is the thing I can't quite grasp: someone will write to me and lambaste me over one of my deal-breakers. I only really have three, so it's not like there are a lot to choose from. Then they will say something like "So what you're really saying is I'm not good enough." Where does THAT come from? Who ever said anything about "good enough"? It's just a question of qualifying or not. Any rejection of something they are becomes personal. I say I don't date dads, I must hate kids, and I must think its bad that they have kids, ummm, not really, I just don't want them around me. I say I don't date fat men, or ugly men, or stupid men, or men of a certain ethnicity, or ignorant men, or old men, and ooohhh, I must hate all people like that. Again, nooooo, I don't hate anyone, I just don't find them attractive. I think our society has become very selfish and self-centered, so any criticism of anything they happen to be becomes a personal attack, it's pathetic. By the way, there are lots of people who really aren't good enough, they're just too lame to admit it.
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Make sure it says ONLY people within (whatever age group you want) and DECLINE works great!
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age only matters to people that dont have much of it Well said! |
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Jeez, who knew 42 was so old?
I guess I must be farting dust by now.... |
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Yah. Old guys r weird. You do look like paedo bait though. Soz.
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only problem I have is that if they are younger than about 40, they just won't shut up
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