forgot to mention that most of the good guys are already married or gay.

I dont think it is a male or female thing of being decent... I believe it's a human thing that people have gotten lazy and don't know how to act anymore.... You get what you put out. So if you say you are looking for a quality like outgoing, don't take time talking to a shy person. You know how it will end, badly.. I mean is it really that hard to stick to your guns and not settle for less than you want?

amen sista....we are lazy yet impatient

I gotta tell ya something. WE are our worst enemy when it comes to looking and for THAT matter,,THINKING,wink,lol.
WE tend to put new faces and bodies on the same TYPE we were hurt by before?
I am not sure what the professional folks call THAT, but it sucks! I have done it and I am sure many here have to and will again..lol
So all WE can hope to find here,,or anywhere, is someone who we can call a friend, and who proves to us that WE can trust them everyday, with MORE of all-we-hold- close,wink.
LIVE,PLAY, LUST, and MAYBE,,find LOVE,,,but THROUGH all of THAT,,,,LAUGH,and CRACK your self up,,,everyday,,because before you realize it, your youth will be gone, your dreams, fade, and your reflections of time spent WORRIED over the small shitt, done left you alone,,,,.
I PRAY you find a GREAT DUDE, and that you find a SMILE,,,every time you think of sex,,,,,lol,lol,lol wink,just kidding on that last part...

Thank you....

I dont like reading stereo types of people. It's ignorant and annoying. Its a global problem for both men and woman and instead of whining about it, why can't people figure what "type" of person they like or don't like , write it in your profile, and learn how to weed peope out who you talk to. Within the first week you should be talking about must have's and can't stands if not you aren't really wanting to find a perfect match for yourself, you are looking for a perfect peron and they don't exsist.

yea actual there are lots of decent men... out there they just are hiding from all the not so decent woman in the world... there is someone for everyone so keep ya chin up

nope, sorry all men are pigs

easy girl, just because I spread my clothes out all over the room and have to smell for clean ones, a pig i am not

SOME of US,,,can't THINK WRIGHT, wink,lol,lol
And to be real,,its when you SEEK to TRY and find another who is different, or SEEMS different and fun. THATS when you realize, in YOUR mind that OMG,,they are freakin NUT CASES,,lol,lol,lol
When in fact, WE SEEM that way to THEM, also...
So,,there is no striaght line to a great one for any of us,,,but WOW,,the fun it is just to really meet a friend from here and laugh together.
THATS more than a close relationship that fades to painful thoughts of one another..
WE all look MORE,,into what we don't want to find in someone, the older WE LIVE TO BE,wink..LIFE,,,baw humbug,,,,lol,lol

heres the dilema..for every one that says they are not a psycho,,theres a psycho that says they're not....lmao..work on yourself first then you'll be able to pick them out...lol

SURE I WILL
I tried THAT and found all to be lesbians,,,,,,wink,lol

NOW, back to that damn drawing board!!!!lol,lol

dude! you gottabe a lesbian too. They luv that

chances are if you keep hookin up with psychos you a little nuckin futs youself

Psycho-babes are fun though...for a while. Just don't let them know where you live or your real name. In the sack they are...well...CRAZY.

there are alot of great men left...start turning over rocks

Men are wired to be pigs, it's in their DNA. (Seriously.) Rare is the man that can hold his impulses in check behind his will. I'm one, as far as I can tell. I'm also the only one I know of.

and let me guess, it's a man that found that gene.

as long as we find a gene or name it as a disorder, one can get away with everything..

I need help with my rock. Crawled under a big one, it shifted n settled and im stuck. About to gnaw my leg off so I can get a cold beer

lmao.....good one

Yes there are Great Men in this World but i feel woman have to look inside a Guy and not whats only on the outside or whats in his pockets, most of the Guys woman get approched buy the woman shoot them down in less than 5mins. there are Guys that you ladies have passed up and they could of been the right one, how many of you ladies heard of a person Guy or Girl who have this incredible Relationship going on for years and the guy or girl in the relationship said at first they where not into him and somehow getting together it turned out to be an incredible relationship or beeter yet they became husband and wife with kids!! Lady's open ur eyes! and you guys tooo!