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Topic: Ppl who lie
Boobella's photo
Mon 10/26/09 12:26 PM
Because they want too ..that's all

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Mon 10/26/09 12:27 PM

There woz also another, who told me he woz 25. I saw his profile on another site. That profile said he woz 40. Wtf? That woz pretty dumb of him.


I used to talk to a guy who lied about being 25 and gorgeous and single, turns out he was 50, married and more than likely uglier than hell. The kind of lies you're listing here are common lies people tell to "trick" you into liking them. They know they'd be rejected if they're honest, so they lie. In the future, get to know them before you get invested emotionally, that way it won't hurt as much when you find out they lied to you.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 10/26/09 12:42 PM

I have found that those who find the need to lie are not happy with themselves and need to make themselves sound better than what THEY think they are. (they are judging themselves and think others will do the same)


I don't think that is always true. I think some people just lie to entertain themselves. They like the attention it gets. They also like the power it gives them to manipulate others if only until the lie is discovered. Some people lie because there is something about their thinking process that does not mature past the "magical thinking" stage. They actually don't get what is falling out of their mouth is just fantasy. Because what they are saying is endearing at the time people fall into the fantasy right along with them.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 10/26/09 12:45 PM
When it comes to what someone tells me on line I take it with a grain of salt until I see it with my own eyes. Verify verfy verify...lol.

catseyes1's photo
Mon 10/26/09 01:55 PM

Y do they bother? Wot's their purpose 4 doin that? I have no time 4 ppl like that. No need 2 abuse my trust.



It's the internet, you will get them all over. You just have to weed out the bad. Good Luck.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 10/26/09 03:26 PM
Sometimes they get carried away with their false personas

They really. Really start to believe it!!

Then when you catch them they have the nerve to say WTF!!

You learn , through trial and error to weed through the lies!:heart:

Monier's photo
Mon 10/26/09 03:29 PM
People lie because they are afraid

tohyup's photo
Mon 10/26/09 03:30 PM

Y do they bother? What's their purpose 4 doing that? I have no time 4 ppl like that. No need 2 abuse my trust.

I honestly think that there isn't one person on earth who does not lie sometimes and this is from my experiences with both men and women .

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Mon 10/26/09 03:33 PM
they are unfomfortable with themselves?

are ashamed of themselves?

want to make them look and sound better?

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Mon 10/26/09 09:42 PM
Are than any real chatrooms on this site that are free ?

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Mon 10/26/09 10:46 PM

Are than any real chatrooms on this site that are free ?


There are no chat rooms, we chat here. And it's free.

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 10/26/09 11:25 PM
wow..so this is like the late night shift kinda topics.

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