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Topic: Secret Crushes
michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 10/20/09 02:29 PM
I'm here for the belly dancer girls. I haven't found any yet. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfdAX8n6UbA Get yourself a Doumbec (drum) and learn how to play. This is the group I drum with-Yes Dancing Girls!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EA_yYaFe10M

Anastasia66 Joined Thu 03/12/09 Posts: 31	Tue 10/20/09 02:39 PM
I don't have a crush yet...taking applications.

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Tue 10/20/09 03:20 PM Edited by TxsSun on Tue 10/20/09 03:26 PM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? I did I think

TelephoneMan Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 2297	Tue 10/20/09 03:38 PM
I'm here for the belly dancer girls. I haven't found any yet. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfdAX8n6UbA +1 on the belly dancer girls... I'll even make an attempt to speak whatever language they are speaking in that video if I find any...

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Tue 10/20/09 04:34 PM
I'm here for the belly dancer girls. I haven't found any yet. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfdAX8n6UbA +1 on the belly dancer girls... I'll even make an attempt to speak whatever language they are speaking in that video if I find any... The singer is Brazilian, the belly dancers behind are indian and iranian.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Tue 10/20/09 07:21 PM
I don't have a crush yet...taking applications. If you send me an app, I'll fill it out completely.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 10/20/09 07:23 PM
i have crushes but its pretty meaningless they all live to far away

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 10/20/09 07:31 PM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? crush and lust....no difference between the 2

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 10/20/09 07:43 PM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? crush and lust....no difference between the 2 yes Jt there is....

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 10/20/09 09:11 PM
I don't have a crush yet...taking applications. Don't forget the background check.

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Tue 10/20/09 10:59 PM
I keep hearing the distance issue come up in this discussion and it is a big factor I think. There may be many people you want to meet but in order to do that you would have to quit your job, have alot of bucks to travel with and get a house sitter. With all this there would be no guarantee of finding "the one". People in large Metro area's may have a better chance at finding compatiable people.Maybe.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 10/21/09 12:36 AM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? crush and lust....no difference between the 2 yes Jt there is.... name it....

kaadeshka Joined Thu 04/03/08 Posts: 413	Wed 10/21/09 12:47 AM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? crush and lust....no difference between the 2 yes Jt there is.... name it.... A crush is both an emotional and physical thing. Whereas lust is all about the immediate sight and instant sexual want.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 10/21/09 01:42 AM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? crush and lust....no difference between the 2 yes Jt there is.... name it.... A crush is both an emotional and physical thing. Whereas lust is all about the immediate sight and instant sexual want. lust can be emotional too....

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Wed 10/21/09 02:22 AM
I have a crush on Hugh Jackman, but I know that'll never happen, so I keep it to myself. LOL! Seriously though. It may also be that they enjoy the crush, but don't want to be disappointed finding out the person isn't what they were crushing over. Good in the mind, but the person may be a brainless twit, or drunkard that you aren't aware of.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 10/21/09 06:55 AM
Goof I do adore you. If you weren't 1800 miles away and I wasn't dating Jeff, man we'd be meeting for drinks. Plus shots, and by that I mean jello, body, and girlie iced shots like purple hooters. And don't forget arguing over gun control. Oooooooo.

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Wed 10/21/09 10:03 AM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? You are right, Lori. Men should take the risk to meet their "partner". Unfortunately there are many men who are intimidated by women in general. So can you imagine how they react when it comes to a beautiful woman? If they are interested in you as a partner then they obviously think you are a beautiful woman whether it be from the inside, outside or both. But sometimes women can't read between the lines. Men can be suggestive in a discreet manner that they are interested in someone, but perhaps that someone does not catch on. It is at that point that a shy person needs "coaxing" or "encouragement" to continue. Thank goodness I am not shy. JMO Lori

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 10/21/09 10:09 AM
I don't get the secret crushes... I realize there are many on here not looking, married, in a relationship, that sort of thing. There are some of us who are actually seeking a partner, I don't think I'm the only one. So wouldn't you want to let one know there is a crush? Attempt getting to know someone and see if there is any connection... Is everyone just so scared or jaded to expose their crush and take a risk? You are right, Lori. Men should take the risk to meet their "partner". Unfortunately there are many men who are intimidated by women in general. So can you imagine how they react when it comes to a beautiful woman? If they are interested in you as a partner then they obviously think you are a beautiful woman whether it be from the inside, outside or both. But sometimes women can't read between the lines. Men can be suggestive in a discreet manner that they are interested in someone, but perhaps that someone does not catch on. It is at that point that a shy person needs "coaxing" or "encouragement" to continue. Thank goodness I am not shy. JMO Lori Thank goodness you are not shy indeed.. I'm not either. So I must tell you Jesse, I want to take your face and smoosh it around in my fingers like a Charpae puppy.

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Wed 10/21/09 10:43 AM
Thank goodness you are not shy indeed.. I'm not either. So I must tell you Jesse, I want to take your face and smoosh it around in my fingers like a Charpae puppy.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 10/21/09 10:15 PM
I have a crush on Hugh Jackman, but I know that'll never happen, so I keep it to myself. LOL! Seriously though. It may also be that they enjoy the crush, but don't want to be disappointed finding out the person isn't what they were crushing over. Good in the mind, but the person may be a brainless twit, or drunkard that you aren't aware of. True that..sometimes the fantasy is better for some.