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Topic: What has the world of dating/relationships come to!?!
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Mon 10/19/09 11:51 PM



The show that gets me is that BrideZilla's. How in the he-l do women like that end up with guys with jobs, looks, personality, and actually love them? Oooooovey!

It seems to me that a guy will take a evil,b!tch of a woman as long as shes a "10" over a girl with a great attitude who may only be a 7.



Ooooohhhh....but women aren't guilty of that particular deal??? LOL

An average looking dude isn't going to be ' forgiven ' NEARLY as much crap as the " hot " guy...lol



Interesting concept, physical appearance and forgiveness.

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Tue 10/20/09 12:02 AM




The show that gets me is that BrideZilla's. How in the he-l do women like that end up with guys with jobs, looks, personality, and actually love them? Oooooovey!

It seems to me that a guy will take a evil,b!tch of a woman as long as shes a "10" over a girl with a great attitude who may only be a 7.



Ooooohhhh....but women aren't guilty of that particular deal??? LOL

An average looking dude isn't going to be ' forgiven ' NEARLY as much crap as the " hot " guy...lol



Interesting concept, physical appearance and forgiveness.


I think you know what I meant by that post.

I really don't feel the need to explain it further.

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Tue 10/20/09 02:13 AM

Since I've been on sites like this I have seen many guys profiles who felt the need to clarify that they are an "independent male"..correct me if I'm wrong as I'm sure many of you will..but shouldn't this be a given?..I mean seriously..since creation began it was man go out and provide for himself and/or his family..Should it really be a shocker or a need to specify that there are still men who do this?..I just watched the reunion show of Househusbands of Hollywood so yeah I'm kinda riled up..lol.
I mean damn,two of those guys don't even have kids they gotta look after!


^^^In America, this isn't really a tradition anymore. There are also many many many people don't only rely on themselves. Having roommates as an example of holding down an apartment isn't independent. People like to think it is though.

Living in a house full of roommates isn't independent.

So a guy having a profile with the word independent could mean a bunch of things but at the same time, can the independent guy be giving you a mixed signal? Such as, you're going to be my housewife, I don't like to have rules govern me, I will survive without you, I refuse to rely on you for support, etc.

Whenever I see that from a woman's profile I become very worried. I don't become worried because she's not successful or has a career or has friends, I become worried because I wonder how big her ego is, if she could take a step back and work together on a project together, etc. It's fine and dandy to be independent but it's not fine to be independent in a relationship.

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Thu 10/22/09 08:45 AM
MY problem with that show tho is..like I say 2 of the husbands aren't doing anything but hanging out with their buddies all day then expect the wives to leave their 9-5's and come home and tend to the house AND their "needs".I don't have a problem with switches roles but both people need to be doing SOMETHING.

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