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My 26 year old son calls me and tells me his girl friend is pregnant.... I'm scared to death!! I raised my boys alone and still have 2 here at home. I don't want to take care of little ones just yet.... I want a break! Feeling a bit guilty that I'm not more excited. |
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Will they be moving in with you?
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Tue 10/13/09 08:25 PM
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dont worry
you'll find that grandkids are so much fun you'll wish that you had had them first |
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(((Lori))) I felt the same way when my son told me.. I felt let down that he didn't wait, etc. but you more used to it and I'm sure when the baby is born it will be instantaneous...
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Congrats!!
& nothing to be guilty about...many people have different ways to accept news |
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Edited by
Ted14621
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Tue 10/13/09 08:28 PM
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Hang in there Lady....we all do.
Life doesn't get easier...just easier to take... from, a Grandpa... but the babies sure are beautiful! |
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Will they be moving in with you? They don't live here in Utah..my concern is they will want to come here so they will have some help...I just don't know if I'm up for it. |
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My 26 year old son calls me and tells me his girl friend is pregnant.... I'm scared to death!! I raised my boys alone and still have 2 here at home. I don't want to take care of little ones just yet.... I want a break! Feeling a bit guilty that I'm not more excited. |
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awwwwwwwwwwwwww congrats that good just don't be scared
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Will they be moving in with you? They don't live here in Utah..my concern is they will want to come here so they will have some help...I just don't know if I'm up for it. Oh okay. |
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But look at this boy in this picture with me
<---------------------- Looks like a baby himself...don't know if he's ready for this. |
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How long have they been together and are they going to get married?
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But look at this boy in this picture with me <---------------------- Looks like a baby himself...don't know if he's ready for this. He may not be ready, but he will be ready when the baby is born...Many people told me a baby makes you grow up |
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dont worry you'll find that grandkids are so much fun you'll wish that you had had them first I have heard that... |
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Congrats, just think you can spoil the gradbaby and then send it home. It will all work out just fine.
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awwwwwwwwwwwwww congrats that good just don't be scared don't be scared...but I am |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Tue 10/13/09 08:46 PM
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don't be scared...but I am So what are you scared of? That they may move closer to you? That they may need your help? I feel for you, and yet know that no matter what...you'll survive, that somehow you will take it all in your stride, and be a wonderful mother, and grandmother to your boy, his girl, and their baby. ((Psst...remember how girls usually want their mum when they are pregnant? You could be reasonably safe in the 'living with you' thing...)) |
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How long have they been together and are they going to get married? They have not been together very long..less than a year. I have never met her, talked to her on the phone..seems nice, I need to meet her in person then I can feel her vibe. No talk of marriage as of right now, but they just found out. This girl is 4 years older than him..hopefully more mature. And she is black and we all know that those mixed babies sure are beautiful... |
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(((Lori))) I felt the same way when my son told me.. I felt let down that he didn't wait, etc. but you more used to it and I'm sure when the baby is born it will be instantaneous... (((Joy))) Thank you...aren't we too young to be grandma's??? |
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