Ok, maybe not entirely true but let me explain.

I know I can be a very complex and complicated guy, but I haven't met a woman yet who didn't exceed far beyond in comparison; but nothing like this so here's the question:

If someone tells you, 'I think I'm falling for you', but everytime the two of you talk, it always constantly feels like you're forcing a conversation out of him/her (Meaning they're very quiet and only seem to respond more then intiate the conversation) does it mean--Let me rephrase, cause I have no clue how to finish it like that..

What does that say about him/her and what does it actually mean their intentions are?

Why don't you ask the spiderman on ur face? lol

Cause he's stuck to the wall of the bathtub and doesn't want to be disturbed. >.<

Besides he gives really bad advice.

It's only a question.

i'm just wondering if her intentions are pure..
..or something else.

Ya dig?

The conversation shouldn't be strained...the comfort level should be such that both are free to be themselves, however maybe she is a bit shy.
When I am "falling for someone" and really enjoy them..well it just flows. (if memory serves)

oh ya l'll tell ya somthing...


I'll think you;ll understand/!!!

when I'll say that smething


I wanna hold ya hand

Maybe it's just difficult for her to share her feelings after she's admitted it.

Back in my first relationship I definitely felt like both the aggressor- like I was forcing him to talk and like I couldn't talk (because I was overcome with...emotion for lack of better words). It could get very frustrating just sitting there trying to think of something to say or how to word it.

I know I never admit lightly to "falling for" someone. And afterwards I feel like an idiot who can't talk because I'm so overcome...

By the way? Pete would probably suck at giving love advice I wouldn't listen to him.

I understand but at the same time, she was like that way before she admitted it to me. That's why it's got me so confused..

Of course at the same time, I don't know if I even want anyone to fall for me....

Lastly.. who the h*** is Pete?
Dude with a barbie poopin on the toilet?

Ah, no. Pete short for Peter. As in Peter Parker a.k.a Spider-man... My geek is showing again isn't it?

No, no, lmao, I just didn't make the connection.
Makes sense now. =]

Like I tell everyone..
I can be very slow at times.

Are you having to force her to talk? Is it an awkward silence?

Shy maybe, or there's nothing really there.

She's shy about you is all. The more I like a guy, the harder it is for me to talk to him. It's kind of backwards I know.

So..
It could be that she does really like me, but she's just uber shy?

Well, that won't do.
I'm a talker, if ya didn't notice..
Conversation and cuddling are both my forte's.
I can't live w/o either.
=[

What does it mean? They're all 'talk' and no action. Common sense would tell you after a disasterous date that this is not the person you spoke to on the phone and that there won't be a second date.

Your only loss is a couple of bucks for dinner.

P.S.: You could look at it this way: maybe you are not what they imagined in person and are speechless.

Can mean a lot or can mean absolutely nothing at all, my advice...talk to her about it, she is the only one that can tell you. Open the way for her to initiate a conversation, such as 'how do you feel about [subject]?' or even as simple as 'what is your favorite [subject]'.

I'll be honest, I look better in print then I act in real life, I'm more secluded and passive...I don't like talking and hardly like most of the people talking to me, my gut reaction is typically silence. She could very well not be comfortable with an open-platform from which to speak, or she could be shy, or she could be plotting your demise while you blab on about [subject]...

WHEN I FALL AND CANT GET UP....... I WILL CRAWL AWAY..........

She could just need more time to open up if she is shy.

If that's just her personality, I don't understand the point of your question. Either she's shy or she's not a big talker, either way, she's not going to change for you, or because she's "falling for you." If you need someone who communicates a lot, maybe you and her aren't well suited? As for not wanting anyone to fall for you, try only hanging around people who will never be interested in you, works for me every time.....

When 2 people hit it off you would expect the conversation to flow if its you always forcing the chat then maybe she not all that into you, only my opinion hun. Anna x

I agree.