| Topic: What have you LEARNED from dating, and breaking up? | |
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      specifically, about what characteristics, personality you want in a partner?
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      Honesty would be nice. 
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      honest, and they have to have dreams and goals...or else you got a rock
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      __able to carry the conversation ok
 __well groomed __personal hygiene a priority __willing to go places __attentive __financially comfortable __good sense of humor __not a huge extended family __likes pets __castle in Scotland | |
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| specifically, about what characteristics, personality you want in a partner?  ---Not a lizard   | |
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      This is easy.
 I don't want one | |
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      He has to be big
 He has to be bald He has to be between 45-55 He has to have a great sense of humor He has to look good in chaps He has to have a bike He has to have a gotee He has to put up with a woman like me He has to love to stay up all night He has to have a job He has to love my dog He has to love my cat He has to do my lawn He has to go home when I don't want him around!! | |
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      also learned i hate being dumped via text...i mean serious is that how they do it these days?
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      What I've learned is that having a partner who suffers from a lack of  intellect, of creativity, or the ability to  communicate effectively, will quickly result in my becoming very bored.  I guess I have a low tolerance (not to mention a limited attention span) for that sort of situation.
 The other thing I've learned is that I need to be watchful of people who claim, at least initially, to want the same things and the same lifestyle I want. It almost always turns out that they're being dishonest about that, and things become problematic when the truth comes out. | |
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      Never really have dated, great relationships in the past developed from friendships.
 Except for good sex & intimacy (including great kisser!) and, yes, eye candy; ... I look for the same traits I hold dear in all my friendships: Integrity Loyalty Warmth Tenderness Compassion Intelligence Humour (Needs to be twisted!) Accountability Adept Communication Skills Common Interests Playfulness Adventurous Non-dogmatic/Open minded Tough Spirited Upbeat | |
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      The Truth Is, EveryBody Is Going To Hurt You; You Just Gotta Find The Ones Worth Suffering For.[♥].
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| The Truth Is, EveryBody Is Going To Hurt You; You Just Gotta Find The Ones Worth Suffering For.[♥]. wow i like that..so true | |
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| also learned i hate being dumped via text...i mean serious is that how they do it these days? Apparently it is   | |
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|   What I've learned is that having a partner who suffers from a lack of intellect, of creativity, or the ability to communicate effectively, will quickly result in my becoming very bored. I guess I have a low tolerance (not to mention a limited attention span) for that sort of situation. The other thing I've learned is that I need to be watchful of people who claim, at least initially, to want the same things and the same lifestyle I want. It almost always turns out that they're being dishonest about that, and things become problematic when the truth comes out.   | |
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| Never really have dated, great relationships in the past developed from friendships. Except for good sex & intimacy (including great kisser!) and, yes, eye candy; ... I look for the same traits I hold dear in all my friendships: Integrity Loyalty Warmth Tenderness Compassion Intelligence Humour (Needs to be twisted!) Accountability Adept Communication Skills Common Interests Playfulness Adventurous Non-dogmatic/Open minded Tough Spirited Upbeat Yeah what she said  add to that he must be able to hold a conversation that can catch my attention as well as hold it in the long run.............   | |
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      At least HE txted you, my ex put his friend on the phone to do it...what a puss...but via txt isnt much better either, sorry hunny!
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      Honesty and trust.
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      Someone who doesn't lie or cheat 
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      Integrity and a spiritual edge..
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| The Truth Is, EveryBody Is Going To Hurt You; You Just Gotta Find The Ones Worth Suffering For.[♥]. Very true. | |
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