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Topic: How do you get someone to not love you anymore?
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Sat 10/10/09 10:16 AM

I've been trying to get my exboyfriend to realize that I want to be just friends, but he doesn't seem to get it. He thinks that he has to move back to Indianapolis (from central North Dakota) just because we're not together any more. I wouldn't wish a big city like that on anyone, especially when he really likes it here in Garrison, but it may just be another of his manipulations, which reinforces one of the reasons we're not together anymore. If he goes, that's his business. I've tried to be gentle with him about all of this, but he's hurt anyway. Unfortunately, that's the way the cookie crumbles. When you no olnger are in love with someone, and you break things off, they get hurt.


It's not your fault he won't accept it's over. Just live your life, when he's ready, he'll start living his.

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Sat 10/10/09 11:42 AM
Dating other people usually helps...bigsmile

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Sat 10/10/09 11:45 AM

Dating other people usually helps...bigsmile


So true....drinker

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Sat 10/10/09 11:46 AM

sad Nobody loves me!!!! sad


I think Gypsy loves you.:tongue:

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Sat 10/10/09 01:59 PM
I believe in pure honesty being blunt telling them how it is no games...
Don’t play with people’s minds and hearts its wrong and you carry that upon your chest when you do this to others... forgive forget move on.

I don’t think that it would hurt as much knowing the truth right away. Of course there would still be tears and suffering and no cure for a broken heart and no promises they will stop loving you ever... But at least they are free, free to let go at their own pace free to mourn what was in their heart now gone...

They know the truth and can choose to stop loving or to carry a piece of you with them always, and you will be free from burden upon your chest by letting them go and being honest.

I feel its better to have had love in you life then to never have loved at all the saying loved and lost comes to mind as well! I have to agree.

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Sat 10/10/09 10:24 PM

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