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Why are you telling us all this out in a public forum? I'm not sure you are helping yourself here... I actually think the way he went about it was nice. He's saying he wants to talk to her and not being creepy about it. |
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Edited by
Calleigh12
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Fri 10/09/09 10:41 AM
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right ok. its nice enough of you lot to chirp in and try and help the situation, but don't you think ya hijacked the thread and kind of took it away from what the first page meant? lol I'm not saying I personally mind the hijacking, but how else am I meant to try and attract the attention of someone else who I don't have permission due to their settings to send a separate message to? Personally, I think people should respect the restrictions others put on their profiles, but that's just me. I have my limits set for a reason, and I think it's rather rude for someone to just ignore them or expect me to change them just because they think I'm "pretty or interesting" or whatever. But like I said, that's just me, maybe the woman you're interested in will find you intriguing enough to lower hers, simply because you want her to. Good luck with that. OH fudge... A simple nudge. I should be forced to wait now. lol. One of the things I do is respect and for spontaneous reasons I totally missed that. Well, I've had several people change their ages and what they're looking for (I block men looking for intimate encounters) just to email me on here and I find it offensive. Nothing they have to say to me is so important that it overrides my preferences. Maybe she'd find it flattering, as others have said in this thread, or maybe she wouldn't. All I know is, when a man does something like that, he's telling me that what he wants is more important than what I want, and that's a turn off to me. Hope you get what you want, since you've gone to all this trouble. 
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Why are you telling us all this out in a public forum? I'm not sure you are helping yourself here... I actually think the way he went about it was nice. He's saying he wants to talk to her and not being creepy about it. It's all about perception. Some might think putting any of your private thoughts out in public is unwise. I agree that he went about it nicely, but who is to say that the object of his affections will not find it creepy? I've found through experience and observation that discretion is always the wise course. |
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In my opinion, people gave him a hard time for no reason. He spoke up about someone he'd like to chat with and was friendly about it. Of course, you're free to disagree.
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   Usually I have plenty to say however Im drawing a blank... sort of shocking to find there is a whole thread going on On Mingle about you, I dont sign on for 2 days and look what happens lol haha too funny! |
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Usually I have plenty to say however Im drawing a blank... sort of shocking to find there is a whole thread going on On Mingle about you, I dont sign on for 2 days and look what happens lol haha too funny! Now you're famous. 
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Usually I have plenty to say however Im drawing a blank... sort of shocking to find there is a whole thread going on On Mingle about you, I dont sign on for 2 days and look what happens lol haha too funny! 
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Usually I have plenty to say however Im drawing a blank... sort of shocking to find there is a whole thread going on On Mingle about you, I dont sign on for 2 days and look what happens lol haha too funny! Well? |
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Usually I have plenty to say however Im drawing a blank... sort of shocking to find there is a whole thread going on On Mingle about you, I dont sign on for 2 days and look what happens lol haha too funny! Well?  she has a cold today
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Some people might find it creepier in discretional talk than within an open public forum. In a more public environment, there is far less chance of creepiness creeping in because more people would likely see it and say something about it.
Please note, I was looking simply just to talk and see if there was any way I would be allowed to find out more about her, and likewise if she wanted to find any more out about me. I hope mineangeleyes, that you are well and ok. And I'm finally relieved to see that you've replied to the thread, albeit page 4 because people are having random conversations in the middle of it! lol |
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Some people might find it creepier in discretional talk than within an open public forum. In a more public environment, there is far less chance of creepiness creeping in because more people would likely see it and say something about it. Please note, I was looking simply just to talk and see if there was any way I would be allowed to find out more about her, and likewise if she wanted to find any more out about me. I hope mineangeleyes, that you are well and ok. And I'm finally relieved to see that you've replied to the thread, albeit page 4 because people are having random conversations in the middle of it! lol 
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Sat 10/10/09 09:18 PM
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this site is the greatest
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this site is the greatest  I agree
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The forums are not the place for this. Take it to email please, thanks.
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