Topic: How do you flirt?
Manwich's photo
Thu 05/31/07 01:15 PM
yes you do rivergirl, you just hate to admit it, lol .

HangedMan's photo
Thu 05/31/07 01:16 PM
Very carefully.

no photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:34 PM
I don't think I even know how to flirt. While growing up, I never had
any girls give me the time of day, so I guess I never learned how to
flirt.

heatherrae's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:35 PM
all a person has to do to flirt with me is smile and be genuine. my fav.
p.u. line is..."howdy, my name is..."

nusalor's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:39 PM
Howdy! My name is...

Then what?huh

Trizar's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:41 PM
flirting is part of my nature... maybe not too much here, but in real
life

heatherrae's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:46 PM
why we dance of course!

PetiteKitten's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:48 PM
I'm a big flirt....I can't help it. It just comes naturally to me...But
then again, so is my boyfriend.....Ever since I started talking to him,
(6 months ago), I've gotten worse. laugh

nusalor's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:50 PM
Flirting...dancing...sounds complicated!glasses

heatherrae's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:51 PM
its easy. just shut up and buy me a beer. who knows u might get lucky.

nusalor's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:53 PM
drinker drinker

Yeeha!!!!!!!!!!!!

heatherrae's photo
Thu 05/31/07 02:56 PM
oh yeah, and u have to sing willie nelson songs to me or it aint
happenin.laugh

nusalor's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:14 PM
Mamma's don't let your babies grow up to cowboys...

HangedMan's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:16 PM
Blue eyes crying in the rain...

SheNerd's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:22 PM
I don't think flirting makes anyone, male or female easy, it's just part
of relating to the opposite sex for some people. I'm not at all flirty,
(straightfoward and blunt spoken is more my style), but I have friends
of both sexes who are flirts and I wouldn't call them easy.

SheNerd :)

uk1971's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:23 PM
If there is one thing that every man (or even woman) has been interested
in since they are kids, this is the knowing of how to flirt.

Do you remember that pretty girl in your classroom that you wanted to
talk to but you didn’t know how to start? If there is one person who
struggled with girls, that’s me.

I don’t know if you were so desperate that you even wrote down the lines
you’d tell the girl. Well, I did. I remember that there was this girl I
was in love with and I didn’t know what to say, so what I did was to
write what I was going to say and imagine what would be her answer and
then I’d write down my response.

But you must be asking: “Man, how do you flirt? I’m not interested in
your situation but in mine”. Okay, maybe you are not in a situation as
bad as mine was but, if you are having problems trying to approach a
woman, I’ll tell you a couple of techniques that have helped me a lot.
In fact, I can tell you that if I like a girl, I can make her feel
interested in me and with a little time, if I want to, I could make her
my girlfriend. I’m not bragging here and I’m not calling myself an
expert but if I’ve been having 100% success rate with my flirting, I
think I must know a thing or two, don’t you think?


Technique #1: Make Her Laugh!

My friend, if you find ways to make that girl laugh since the beginning
you open a world of possibilities.

Have you seen the movie “Michael” with John Travolta? He is supposed to
be an angel who comes down to Earth and fix problems. Well, he is trying
to make a couple to realize that they are in love with each other. He is
always trying to make jokes in he says in one part of the movie this:
“..You gotta learn to laugh... It’s the way to true love…”

That is so true. Just try it and you’ll get convinced immediately. I’ve
done it and believe me, it works wonders. I promise if you focus only in
finding ways to make a girl laugh, you’ll have more potential
girlfriends than you’ve ever dreamed of.

Technique #2: Don’t Show Too Much Interest.

That’s right. Women have that sixth sense that tells them when a man is
just trying to approach them with sexual intentions. There’s noting bad
with that, however if you start by approaching them ONLY to be friends,
she will feel that way and will be more open to your conversation.
Later, you can invite her out and everything starts from there.

If you show too much interest, another thing that might happen is that
she could feel so proud that she might decide to have some fun and make
it more difficult for you to approach her.

My recommendation is that at the beginning you show a lot of interest,
tell her how wonderful her eyes are and don’t stop talking about her
eyes for a few minutes, try to make her laugh talking about her eyes.
Then, suddenly ignore her eyes, talk about anything else, don’t mention
her eyes anymore. This way she will wonder what’s wrong with her eyes
because minutes ago they were the most important thing in the world for
you and all of a sudden, those wonderful eyes are not as beautiful as
before.

Do you see my point? First, show a lot of interest, and then show
indifference. This, my friends, is one of my best tricks.

But to start, I strongly recommend that do everything in your power to
find ways to make her laugh. That alone will be the key that opens the
door to your success with any girl.

:wink: glasses

Peacekeeper101's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:26 PM
Flirting is harmless and fun. The whole idea of flirting is to make the
person you're talking to smile or laugh, or just happy in general.
Flirting opens the person up to feel more comfortable with talking to
you. I'm a huge flirt, but I don't have the intention of trying to
"hook up" with every woman I flirt with, it's just a good way to break
the ice and have a friendly conversation with someone... it's what comes
after the flirting that determines where you'll go with someone...
That's just me though, don't know if it's the same for everyone.

Peacekeeper101's photo
Thu 05/31/07 03:35 PM
I wouldn't say "show indifference", but yeah, coming off as desperate is
usually a bad idea...

s1owhand's photo
Thu 05/31/07 06:22 PM
you can tell that she is flirting with you if she appears to show
interest in your hobby, wardrobe, work or conversation...

if she laughs at your jokes it is just *shameless*

8^)

Zapchaser's photo
Thu 05/31/07 07:36 PM
Flirt? Thought you said fart. Sorrysick