So I went out with this guy last weekend... Turns out he wasn't really my type but he was super nice and we were having fun so I just rolled with it.
A few lil things he said kinda bothered me but my friends that were there and met him too said "oh just give him a chance. He's just nervous." blah blah blah
So I listened to them and tried to talk myself into giving him a chance.
He calls me today to let me know he didn't feel a spark and he's sorry but we can be friends.
I told him good luck and take care.
It's kinda annoying now that I talked myself into it that he backed out I should listen to myself more often

Yep, always go with your gut feelings.

yeah don't ya hate that grrrr that not good always just ur own judgment

yep... its a "grrrrr" not like I'm not heartbroken or anything. Just annoyed. I'll be over it shortly.

No biggie

He didn't feel it either

He just said it first

Now go meet another guy

With your looks

Should be no problemo!!

if its not there ,its not there.youll now next time......chalk it up as lesson learned.

he was sure into me the whole time. I think he said it first cuz he thought it was prob gonna come from me eventually oh and I have lots of problems meeting guys

Kudos to him for being honest with you and not stringing you along.

I agree completely. He coulda just ignored my calls until I gave up. Had that happen more than once

yeah no kidding don't find a lot of those anymore

*shrugs* It's OK to let him think it was HIS idea...hopefully that way he won't turn out to be one of those guys complaining about how "nice" he is...

one less nice guy whinning is a good thing.

Or at least until the next woman he goes out with dumps him first.

I'm pretty sure he knew by my reaction that it wasn't to far away from coming from me. lol I can tell by the way he was talked he rehearsed it before calling me. I give him kudos for calling. I just couldn't talk cuz I was at work so I texted him. All I said was OK. Then he went on to explain how we can be friends and maybe go out sometime and I just replied "take care"

True

Oh and he wasn't from this site So I'm free to post about it

Of COURSE he wasn't. Because local guys from here don't ask us out. Say....wasn't there a thread started on this subject?

I wouldn't be too sure about that! But maybe it's different in Texas...?

Apparently it is.

Isn't everything different in Texas?