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sweetlipsforu Joined Thu 08/21/08 Posts: 41	Tue 09/29/09 12:45 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks?

Peachiepoohie Joined Wed 09/13/06 Posts: 2124	Tue 09/29/09 12:48 PM
Depends on whther were ralking about a man or a boy...men love personality and confidence. Boys run towards everything superficial not realizing that looks fade. I've found that a confident woman is very sexy...w

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Tue 09/29/09 12:55 PM
I hope both. People define looks (pretty, cute, beautiful, hot) differently.

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Tue 09/29/09 01:16 PM
Depends on whther were ralking about a man or a boy...men love personality and confidence. Boys run towards everything superficial not realizing that looks fade. I've found that a confident woman is very sexy...w I agree

Sandy9876 Joined Fri 09/25/09 Posts: 79	Tue 09/29/09 01:43 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? That's the age old argument that is. Everyone wants to say personality and that is extremely important however that's not what you see when you first meet someone. Women do the same we know personality counts in huge terms but it's a bit hard to see personality until you come to know someone. So looks get you in the door but personality helps you stay there.

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Tue 09/29/09 01:46 PM Edited by Quietman_2009 on Tue 09/29/09 01:46 PM
same same I won't accept one without the other if I can't have the whole horse I won't take just a tail I'm picky that way

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Tue 09/29/09 02:14 PM
I will take personality over looks Except if he looks better with a bag over his head That would change my mind a bit

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 09/29/09 02:15 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? I may notice looks more readily, but the end result is always a disappointment. On balance, I would just like to find someone with an intellect, some creativity, and no desire to turn me into a sitcom dad. Of course, women fitting that description are now extinct.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 09/29/09 02:17 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? I may notice looks more readily, but the end result is always a disappointment. On balance, I would just like to find someone with an intellect, some creativity, and no desire to turn me into a sitcom dad. Of course, women fitting that description are now extinct. I can't help but agree with the great Lex...once again. Think we will ever find someone that doesn't want to domesticate us? Can you see into the future yet Lex, or is that another one of those things you are waiting for?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 09/29/09 02:25 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? I may notice looks more readily, but the end result is always a disappointment. On balance, I would just like to find someone with an intellect, some creativity, and no desire to turn me into a sitcom dad. Of course, women fitting that description are now extinct. I can't help but agree with the great Lex...once again. Think we will ever find someone that doesn't want to domesticate us? Can you see into the future yet Lex, or is that another one of those things you are waiting for? I actually did meet one person who was completely OK with the whole non-domestication thing. Unfortunately, I can't seem to make it work with her after 10 years of trying. Is there another one like her out there? My experience tells me there's not. At least, I have seen nothing to indicate that any other such person exists. I have seen the future, and it looks more and more stiflingly mainstream....

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Tue 09/29/09 02:35 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? I may notice looks more readily, but the end result is always a disappointment. On balance, I would just like to find someone with an intellect, some creativity, and no desire to turn me into a sitcom dad. Of course, women fitting that description are now extinct. Not extinct Lex...you simply haven't met any

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 09/29/09 02:44 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? I may notice looks more readily, but the end result is always a disappointment. On balance, I would just like to find someone with an intellect, some creativity, and no desire to turn me into a sitcom dad. Of course, women fitting that description are now extinct. Not extinct Lex...you simply haven't met any ....which amounts to the same end result.... particularly since I'm not in a position to do any more looking....!

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Tue 09/29/09 02:54 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? I may notice looks more readily, but the end result is always a disappointment. On balance, I would just like to find someone with an intellect, some creativity, and no desire to turn me into a sitcom dad. Of course, women fitting that description are now extinct. Not extinct Lex...you simply haven't met any ....which amounts to the same end result.... particularly since I'm not in a position to do any more looking....! Hmmmmmm......possibilty "they" may look for you! Wouldn't it be wonderful to be found?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 09/29/09 03:04 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? I may notice looks more readily, but the end result is always a disappointment. On balance, I would just like to find someone with an intellect, some creativity, and no desire to turn me into a sitcom dad. Of course, women fitting that description are now extinct. Not extinct Lex...you simply haven't met any ....which amounts to the same end result.... particularly since I'm not in a position to do any more looking....! Hmmmmmm......possibilty "they" may look for you! Wouldn't it be wonderful to be found? I'd like that! A lot! I don't think anyone is looking for me though, except for those villagers with the pitchforks and flaming torches....

IntriguingVictory Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 2206	Tue 09/29/09 05:42 PM
Looks. My best friends personality is important.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/29/09 06:27 PM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? important to me would be both..settling would be one or the other

kyriverman Joined Mon 09/21/09 Posts: 32	Tue 10/06/09 08:42 AM
Honestly I would think compatibility., but given the choice of the two I would go with personality. That in itself makes a woman beautiful.

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Tue 10/06/09 11:18 AM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? Looks is part of the makeup of a persons personality!

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Tue 10/06/09 11:30 AM
I hope both. People define looks (pretty, cute, beautiful, hot) differently. as modela said.i hope both exist.there has to be a physical attraction too and it doesnt make someone a little boy to know what they want.if your not physically attracte to each other the relationship is doomed to eventually fail.lets face it, there is still the intimacy aspect of any relationship andwhen one or the other is being denied that in a relationship due to a lack of attraction,its not fair to the other spouse. thatcan be a very deveststing blow to any relationship.

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Tue 10/06/09 11:32 AM
Whats more important to men? Is it a womans personality or looks? Which one does intelligence fall under Which one does being loyal in a relationship fall under Which one does compassionate fall under Which one does sexual dynamo fall under Which one does spends a lot of money fall under Which one does.............