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| Topic: Did I mess up? what to do next? | |
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I'm a Virgo so naturally I wear my heart on my sleeve. Last week I met a girl whom I've been talking to for over a year as just friends. Last week we finally meet and hit it off really well! and then we saw each other again the following day... throughout the week we text nonstop and keep falling for one another from all the compatibility we have with each other and so on she is a Virgo too. Sat came along and we saw each other again and spent the night together fairly innocently and I asked her to be my girlfriend she said yes, we both said "i love you"
Today she texts me saying we should slow down and not rush anything, that she recently got out of a long relationship and really wants me and her to work. She thinks we need to just date and spend time together, so I asked to be clear if she wanted to see other guys and she got hurt by my question I've apologized on that but she says she's still hurt and will talk to me tomorrow... any words on this? |
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Slow down, otherwise it'll crash and burn. Glad to see you back, I've missed your threads....
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Slow down, otherwise it'll crash and burn. Glad to see you back, I've missed your threads.... Good to know my fans missed me |
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Slow down, otherwise it'll crash and burn. Glad to see you back, I've missed your threads.... Good to know my fans missed me 
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Slow down, otherwise it'll crash and burn. Glad to see you back, I've missed your threads.... Good to know my fans missed me  So you think I messed up on asking her if she wanted to see other guys? throughout the week before Sat we were talking kids and marriage, meeting each others families, a future together |
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I would slow down and listen carefully to her feelings on your next meeting.
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I would slow down and listen carefully to her feelings on your next meeting. I told her that I do understand where she's coming from and I respect her decision |
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Slow down, otherwise it'll crash and burn. Glad to see you back, I've missed your threads.... Good to know my fans missed me So you think I messed up on asking her if she wanted to see other guys? throughout the week before Sat we were talking kids and marriage, meeting each others families, a future together Not really, just slow down. It can be easy to get caught up in the moment of a new relationship, and you can move too fast and scare the other person away. So it's best to step back and take a deep breath and just proceed slowly. If she likes you, she's not going anywhere anytime soon, so no need to rush things. About the other guys thing, just don't mention it again. |
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Yeah, slow down and let her come into her own terms and just be there for her would be enough for her to know that you care...
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I'm a Virgo so naturally I wear my heart on my sleeve. Last week I met a girl whom I've been talking to for over a year as just friends. Last week we finally meet and hit it off really well! and then we saw each other again the following day... throughout the week we text nonstop and keep falling for one another from all the compatibility we have with each other and so on she is a Virgo too. Sat came along and we saw each other again and spent the night together fairly innocently and I asked her to be my girlfriend she said yes, we both said "i love you" Today she texts me saying we should slow down and not rush anything, that she recently got out of a long relationship and really wants me and her to work. She thinks we need to just date and spend time together, so I asked to be clear if she wanted to see other guys and she got hurt by my question I've apologized on that but she says she's still hurt and will talk to me tomorrow... any words on this? Balky what where you thinking hun?? she likes you but your putting the heat on...relax chill calm down and dont RUSH and what in the hell where you thinking to ask her if she wanted to see other guys?? any girl would be hurt by that comment, now apologise and take her out on a nice date and DONT put the pressure ON....Anna x |
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Well said Anna..
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Well said Anna.. Thank you Has it come to this gay anna giving advise to guys?? Anna
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Comrade: women are totally different from men in their thoughts and what they truly wnat. If she says slow down , you better slow down and respect that if you wnat to full fill a relationship with her. Try not to respond based on your emotions that you feel for her ,for sometimes the emotions u feel may sometimes make you make an impulsive decision. logic it out bro.
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Yes...slow down. Why are you always in a hurry??? Got a wedding to go to???
  The woman just got out of a long term relationship. Love, or feelings of love are scary. Give her some space. |
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i'd say the "I love you" thing prab screwed it up. Sometimes its just ment to be a nice thing but she prab like wow we been hanging out for a few weeks and hes already saying it. By yo mentioning other guys shes thinking your the jelous type. At least she said she still wants to see you and hang out. Good luck!!
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didnt we just do this thread last week?
when papersmile and I first met, she said she wanted me to go slow so I pretended like I was in slow motion and talked like "Raaaaaaaawwwww raaaaaaaawwwwww raaawwwwwwwwww" she wasnt amused |
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Slow down
Ya move to fast.... |
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I'm a Virgo so naturally I wear my heart on my sleeve. Last week I met a girl whom I've been talking to for over a year as just friends. Last week we finally meet and hit it off really well! and then we saw each other again the following day... throughout the week we text nonstop and keep falling for one another from all the compatibility we have with each other and so on she is a Virgo too. What is this lately with all this astrology crap? She isn't the same because both of you are a "Virgo", did you realize that? |
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you got to make the mornin last
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didnt we just do this thread last week? when papersmile and I first met, she said she wanted me to go slow so I pretended like I was in slow motion and talked like "Raaaaaaaawwwww raaaaaaaawwwwww raaawwwwwwwwww" she wasnt amused
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