Topic: What the hell are we doing here?
Drawder's photo
Fri 10/16/09 08:46 PM
Trying to find somebody with same ideals. Through experience, we realize what we really want at the end. So dating many people is a good thing when you do it the right way!

mendy2's photo
Fri 10/16/09 08:49 PM
yes,and you become friends with the ones ones you dont connect with

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Fri 10/16/09 09:02 PM
I'm here for s**ts'n'giggles. Anything more is icing on the cake smile2

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Fri 10/16/09 09:08 PM

I'm here for s**ts'n'giggles. Anything more is icing on the cake smile2


drinker

Sunflower85's photo
Fri 10/16/09 09:09 PM
i am here to have a little fun

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Fri 10/16/09 09:12 PM

I'm stalking, not sure what everyone else is doing....


your honesty is SOOOO refreshing........LMAO.....

got any tips for me...huh? do ya? please? huh? cmon? just a little one? please?

Monier's photo
Fri 10/16/09 10:48 PM
Edited by Monier on Fri 10/16/09 10:48 PM
I come to this site's forums for a good laugh and the occasional pleasant surprise when somebody actually gets somebody else who just asked a question.

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Sat 10/17/09 12:09 PM
Window shopping

randyrobinett's photo
Sat 10/17/09 12:32 PM
I am actually searching for someone to spend time with.....

mendy2's photo
Sat 10/17/09 05:18 PM
we are here we are there ,,we are all here looking
everywhere,,no mate yet! sad

lolblondie123's photo
Sat 10/17/09 05:24 PM
Not quite sure why I am here. Not ready to date yet, but, you never know who and what you will miss out on!

randyrobinett's photo
Sat 10/17/09 05:30 PM
i am thinking i need to change my picture or something........thousands of profiles in here and i cant find any near me to match....i do realize i dont want to match with the majority in here ...but a lot of ladies in here are interesting

BrujaLatina69's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:12 PM
Edited by BrujaLatina69 on Sat 10/17/09 07:16 PM
Utter Rubbish. Marriage is no cure all that just happens to incorporate some intangible called love.
Your bitterness is a shining example of how not to use this site. Mendy2 is looking to find someone to love her and in return to love. How dare you sit in such a judgement seat that would deny anyone that opportunity.


@Carpenter:

My bitterness? Who told you that I was looking to date off this place in the first place? How dare you sit in judgement when the forums are meant for giving opinions and advice. She posted and I responded. I didn't come here to pat anyone on the back and say "awwwwww" but say what was on my mind. Mendy2 is a big girl and stopped wearing diapers a long time ago so find someone else's hair to smooth and someone else to get at where you know for a fact is sitting on a throne of judgement.

BTW, this is not Romper Room. No one is denying the OP an opportunity for anything. People set their own limitations by enabling their mates, staying with people they know that aren't right for them and making every possible excuse to avoid the obvious.

My take on the situation as far as the 25 years goes, was what I posted. This is a situation where I call bs on you, exactly that---POT MEET KETTLE. You talk as if you are an authority on people trying to take the opportunity to find happiness on this site but there you are trying to take my opportunity to exercise my first amendment right----FREEDOM OF SPEECH!

You really are bold talking all that smack and no pic to post. Yeah, real tough! Not!

Now, you can sit down.

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:34 PM


noway



The lamest part about it for me is that there isn't a single woman in my area who's on this site that interests me at all...................... yet I'm still here!


Yea, I'm scratching my head about that too



It seems to be a common complaint here ,myself included,that we can not seem to find someone in our immediate area's that interests. Can anyone explain this? Seems odd. smokin


It's simple, all the local people suck...


Yeap, but what if the local people of all area's suck noway
Maybe there is an illusion that they are somehow "better choices" than in our own vicinity what


When you chat with someone farther away, you get to know them before anything happens. The local guys tend not to want to chat much and get to know you much before meeting, since they're close by. That's why, at least for me, someone farther away may seem more appealing.


That is not my experience with local guys.

Either they assume if you are online you are basiclly easy OR they want to drag out meeting like they don't have the you know what to ask for a coffee date after asking the basics.

Or they think they get months of your exclusive attention calling and emailing and then if you do not meet their fantasies they dump you and cry you are so different in person.

I get the idea of not telling people you meet on line information that would compromise your saftey but some are just playing games.


artman48's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:40 PM
I'm here to find a nice woman around my age ----with a sh-t load of Money!!!!love smokin

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:45 PM

Man wemen in Minnesota are mean like I've lived all over the country and the girls here at least the ones I'm interested in are stuck up and rude like I had one just laugh at me when I told her she was pretty and asked her out to eat like it's depressing so I think I'm done rejection hurts too bad they make me feel like a creep for sayin hi and make me feel like a loser for asking them out and I think I'm a nice looking guy man their like stright shi!!y here like real bad like the worst like worse than vagas wow that's hard


Well I think it is rude to laugh at an invitation but maybe if you walked up out of the blue and asked me out I would maybe laugh too because it would kind of make me nervouse and a little fearful that a total stranger thought I would just get in a car and go some where with them. Maybe starting out with "You are really pretty and nice and I would like to talk to you someday when you are not busy with your friends." Then hand her a note with your name and number.

mssilverfox's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:49 PM
Well, I'll admit I am here looking for a good man within 10 yrs of my age, someone that likes to do things..bigsmile

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:50 PM

I'm here to find a nice woman around my age ----with a sh-t load of Money!!!!love smokin


Oh Dang and I gave my last million away to Jerry's Kids.!!!!

artman48's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:56 PM
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Well, I'll admit I am here looking for a good man within 10 yrs of my age, someone that likes to do things..bigsmile


I like to do thing's!!!---but they take lots of money--flowerforyou bigsmile

artman48's photo
Sat 10/17/09 07:58 PM
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I'm here to find a nice woman around my age ----with a sh-t load of Money!!!!love smokin


Oh Dang and I gave my last million away to Jerry's Kids.!!!!


I thought he was dead???smokin