ok im 24 years old with 2 beautiful children (18 months & 3months old) im not ugly, not obese, not ghetto, no drama. i have my own place,own car & a college education but i cant seem to find a decent friend/man anywhere in the city but every where i look i see ghetto girls with 4 -6 children, finger popping,neck rolling, only want a man for money, will sleep w/ whoever got the biggest rims, shake her tail & drop to a split for anyone in the club with what seem to be decent men. i say seems to be because they take them out to eat, shopping, pay to get their hair & nails done, spend time, text,call,,stay faithful, pay bills & be a decent step parent to the kids but i don know what goes on behind closed doors. i've NEVER asked anyone for money for anything, & i've never had anyone offer to pay anything (except for the occasional date). i ask for honesty,faithfulness,love, trust,understanding & affection.u kno when ur doing the dishes or cooking he'll come & hug u from behind, or he gets off work & u rub his back after he gets out the shower, just nice little things that keep a relationship going. is it something that im doing wrong, am i just looking in the wrong places or are my expectations too high?
should i start asking for money, leaving my kids at daycare to go to the club or lower my standards to just anybody?

IF YOU TRUST IN GOD THEN EVERYTHING WILL BE OK, YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE, JUST KEEP FAITH, SOMETIMES YOU GOT GO THE EXTRA MILE, BUT YOU DONT HAVE TO GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING THAT YOU NOT COMFORTABLE WITH. HOLD YA HEAD UP AND KEEP A POSITIVE MIND TRUST ME YOU WILL BE OK!