HELP I’m drowning in men’s inability to forgive themselves, forget and let go..
What’s a woman to do????

Well AngelEyes, the only way I can have a clear understanding of your situation is to have sex with you for a while.....you split on me, then come back begging for another shot of lovin.

I am trying to gain a clear perspective so, you gotta work with me darlin.

Find men without these flaws.

Yesterday I get a message from an ex with three little words

ONE MORE TRY

Why are they unable to let go... The more honest and blunt I am that I have moved on in my life the more they want me I don’t understand this attachment.... is it just me who is so cold to feelings at times or what??? I know I am very resilient and don’t see need for tears and get over things really quickly I always find a positive when handed something negative.
Anyways I couldn’t contain myself from laughing reason being what the ***k we dated a short period of time like in 2005 lol.

He always ...always finds a way to get in touch with me. I have changed my phone number and moved several times and last yr 3 hours away from the city I once lived in and he resides in currently.

He is not the only one that has this issue I have had several men from my past who can’t seem to let go... one who I dated 7 yrs ago he’s married now and he still talks to my brother and he always finds a way to try to get messages to me. and the list goes on. LOL

I am very honest and very blunt, I don’t play games I tell it how it is but it doesn’t seem to be working why do they not stay away... I don’t give any reason or lead them into self hope that there would be another chance at "US"
Some advice would be greatly appreciated as for I’m at a loss and I like leaving the past in the past and worry about now... and a future uninterrupted... oh and I don’t want to tell lies to get rid of them like I have a boyfriend or that I’m married or dying lol, I’m not dishonest to anyone that only gets you in trouble if you take that route in any circumstance.

Thanks for those who have comments and or advice. You guys are all awesome and I feel like becoming a member of the family and can ask anything and someone would care to help.

ohh sex is the answer is what im taking from your response to my issue? LOL

HAHA

ummm no

I dont blame them