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| Topic: Do men do it more than women?? | |
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Okay, Oz, I will extend an olive branch, if we can be friends, then you have gotten through to me, and that I just had a bad apple and not the whole tree.   Ok...Cats...here is how I see it. You met a woman....fell in lust...love...a puddle....whatever.. you gave...she took. you kept giving....she kept taking. Now the tough love bit.... Ready? Strapped in? Mate...you dont give yourself for over three years to a hellish nightmare, unless you are 100% masochistic...so in all of that time, there MUST have been some good stuff. Time to remember the good stuff, and shake off the not great stuff. You aren't dead. You aren't a street person, homeless...you even got to keep your cats! It sucks...but you had a not great relationship. You got burned. Welcome. Now move on up into the big boy panty world... and let a lot of the yuk go. If you are still doing court stuff...then it will take a little longer. I was loathe to comment on your desire to have your ex sectioned in that thread last night...as I was concerned for your motives. I suspect there's a whole heap of anger in there...and wondered if it was vendetta motivated. You have the potential to greatness.... you have had the hard yards...you know what it takes to have a great relationship, by being accountable and responsible for YOUR part, and learning from the past. Time to Grow. You had a relationship with a woman....who happened to be from Australia. So by default do you condemn all women? I think not.  Absolutely not, and in fact maybe you got to have a glimpse inside my soul. I have been tortured, crucified, tormented, abused, and all this time I forgave, tolerated, and loved unconditionally. I learned the teachings of Christ. She apparently did not. I understood what love was, she did not. Jess, I want to be a friend here with you, and I will be totally honest with you, no matter where you're from. God bless from the USA! |
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you know the old saying, "You could do at lot better than him?" She did a lot worse than me. I actually feel sorry for the guy she's with now, and I don't even like the guy.
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When I started this post, I was referring to someone you regretted not making a more permanent relationship with, not the ones that broke your heart. It just seemed to me reading the post that there seemed to be more men than women who thought about "the one that got away"
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Hahahaha....attention spans of 3 year olds....threads that have a life of their own.
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I tried to lose them but they kept following me....
  
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When I started this post, I was referring to someone you regretted not making a more permanent relationship with, not the ones that broke your heart. It just seemed to me reading the post that there seemed to be more men than women who thought about "the one that got away" Maybe the men just whine about it more?
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Hahahaha....attention spans of 3 year olds....threads that have a life of their own. No doubt
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I tried to lose them but they kept following me....
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When I started this post, I was referring to someone you regretted not making a more permanent relationship with, not the ones that broke your heart. It just seemed to me reading the post that there seemed to be more men than women who thought about "the one that got away" Maybe the men just whine about it more? I will never admit to that! 
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Well if you look at it a certain way, my ex was the one that got away. Which fits the qualifications of your post. I just did not have the Christ-like qualities to keep her true to me. And the fact that she was a wiccan, does not make her attracted to the Christ-types. Maybe it was meant to be.
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Well if you look at it a certain way, my ex was the one that got away. Which fits the qualifications of your post. I just did not have the Christ-like qualities to keep her true to me. And the fact that she was a wiccan, does not make her attracted to the Christ-types. Maybe it was meant to be. Hmmm actually it does not fit the qualifications of my post, perhaps I should have been more specific. I refer you back to Irish_Dude's post, as the same thing happened to me, a relationship long ended that you begin to wish had come to fruition or that you regret (at a later date) ended. |
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I'm the ultimate recycler...
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I'm the ultimate recycler...
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Irish_Dude made a post about "The one that got away." Do men more often experience regret over past relationships than women? Or vice-versa? okay, here it is, I'm resetting the time machine back to the beginning. Would I do it all again, or run away? I would run away, knowing what I know now. Too bad we haven't invented time travel yet. 
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It happens to both men and women.
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Irish_Dude made a post about "The one that got away." Do men more often experience regret over past relationships than women? Or vice-versa? How would you ever be able to know? What is the standard unit of measurement for regret? I would think this would be a difficult question to answer, generically by gender, as everybody is different.... |
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 Oh it's eating me up inside
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I'd say: vice-versa. Women are humans too... and have feelings... Yeaaah, I'm not so sure about that!
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