In my opinion, which I'm sure doesn't matter but I'll give it anyway.. I think you're FAR to young to get yourself involved with a girl/woman with 3 kids and who is too imature to treat you like you matter when others are around.. She's disrespecting you by doing what she's doing.. But then again you're disrespecting yourself by putting up with it and being afraid to be without her....

I heard nail glue works the same as crazy glue when gluing the knees together!

wow, she's got some baggage! Just talk to her, IMO. Women love to talk! (I personally wouldn't get involved with someone who has little kids to deal with...you'll always be the third wheel and a source of stress-usually the first thing axed during rough times.)

Texting while on a date - a BIG no no.

You might want to figure out a couple of things fast.

Being afraid to break up with someone just about guarntees you will.

Why your life turns into a living hell? Do you really need external control to keep yourself on tract? Sooner or later she is going to get tired of her human puppy dog and dump you again but if she is jerking you around after that is an even better reason to get away from her.

Your earlier post said you have seen her a few months, this is the time things usually go the SMOOTHEST. If youare already doing the on again, off again drama,,maybe the timing is just off. It sounds as if you should just try to be a friend and not get your hopes up. A healthy relationship isnt healthy because it fixes unhealthy individuals. A healthy relationship requires two people who are already healthy. Sounds as if you both might have some things to clear up in your own lives before you think of venturing into a life together,,,,just a thought though

Look at her hsitory. 3 Kids 3 Dads. She is texting on dates. Why is she ignoring you?? Seems she has NO time for a real relationship.

Time to re evauatle what you want in a Girl friend.

Take her cell-phone and throw it in the ocean!

If my girl sat txt all the time when we where together i would be so hurt, and i would actually think i must be a bore to her then i would say HEY your more in love with your mobile than me so get on with it BYE. Anna x

Thunder Honey, I don't know where to begin. I'll start with "when we go somewhere public with all of her friends". Huh? Why are the two of you going anywhere with all of her friends? Does she need body guards? How old IS she? Sounds like what we did in junior/middle high school. You are adorably cute and sound like a nice guy. Is she the only female in town? Sounds like it with all the guys she's been with! You get the one life...one time through here and you want to spend it with someone who already is making you nuts? I wish you could be my age for 5 minutes and you would see what a waste of time this is on your part. I care, I really do.

Well this is YOUR relationship

We are not with the two of you

So you gotta work this out with her


But please


No more babies!!!

The texting ridiculousness aside....this woman has three kids.

From three different fathers.

And you're dating her.

What the hell is wrong with YOU??

If you love her stand by her and help her work on her insecurities, personally I would not put up with that JMO, And texting on a date with you that should tell you something. Think things through carefully you may wind up with a broken heart. Good Luck to you.

I have 2 cats by 2 different fathers.........WTF IS WRONG WITH ME?!

Dump her and get with me.

<--No kids.

i'd break it off if shes insecure.. . b/c she might cheat on you

That sentence right there would have had me shooting myself out of cannon in the other direction...!

That's what I'm thinking.....

Too many red flags IMO.