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      when in a relationship try to think of the other person with kindness  
  caring and concern [especially if they're angry] and say things with love and hear things with love [even when they're angry]    
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        ![]() So very true {{{Pappa}}}}}  | 
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      I know some horrible things can be said in the HEAT of an argumet... 
  good advise, thanks  
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      words to live by!  
  ![]() Thanks for posting them.  | 
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      ok...I meant in the HEAT of an argument 
  HELP!!!! I need a spell check....lolol  
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      Puff 
  We know what you meant?  | 
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      amen pappa sometimes when we lose our cool we usually say things we dont  
  mean and then regret them later one word of advise think before you speak take a time out chill 1,2,3  | 
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      Lol good advice, but like that's ever gonna happen 
           
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      You smokin' on hump day, pappa? 
   
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      I agree..If I get too angry...I won't discuss the problem until I have  
  time to think about it and talk about it rationally!!!!! It doesn't ALWAYS work...BUT hey I try!!!!!!      
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      who did you piss off pappa  
  ![]() yes I agree with what you said...  
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      Excellent advice.  Hard to follow sometimes, but excellent anyways. :)
     
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      aww.. very good advice.  its good to hear a man with some relationship  
  wisdom these days.. : D  | 
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      so ...all we need is love?... 
  ta da da da da...  
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      Davinci... 
  Don't you think that we all deserve it...need it? -Joanne  
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     Love & Forgive Quickly... In the Grand Scheme of your life.. How important is that 5 minutes...  | 
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      My grandma used to say that when you are in an argument you have to  
  think, "How important will this be 6 months, 1 year, or three yrs from now" and act accordingly. The other good piece of advice I got was, Start them the way you want them don't expect change if you have been doing it from the beginning. Example: You want dishes in the dishwasher then after dinner have him/her help you load it.etc etc....  | 
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      and try not to bring up further back than yesterday ,,, talking about  
  something that happened months ago and really bothered "YOU" really only makes you look un-forgiving and vengeful if you can't stay on topic???lol the other person is probably making too much sense,,, and you feel you're losing and things from way back really aren't useful tools    
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      sometimes finding love again can wipe out those bitter feelings from the  
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