I am what i am if its not to your taste then walk on by but before you do pop in and say Hi, a picture is just a picture it does not show your personality and you should never judge a book by its cover!! Anna x

Oh, I definitely agree about "judging a book by it's cover", especially on matters of how you look...features....beauty...that's such an individual thing. But, I'm talking about someone who puts a photo that is obviously sad, or angry looking. Doesn't seem like you would attract someone you would want. Unless misery does, indeed, love company. But, no, I'm not talking about someone's looks...simply how they come across. Would you rather see a smile...or a frown? Smiles for me...but to each his or her own.

Good guys...honest guys...sincere guys...don't want to hear rants about your bad choices...or who fooled you. We didn't do it...and damn it...we're not all the same!

If you have a good profile...fine. But if you aren't getting results...think about the image you're projecting on your profile. And remember Albert Einstein's observation: Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a sign of insanity! I'll concentrate on women's profiles here..because that's what I look at...but I'm sure these comments apply to men, as well. If you post a photo...highly advisable...DO NOT put one up that makes you look like you're a dead dog away from being in the lyrics of a country song. Some of you gals look so sad or despondent, I can't imagine who you expect to find you interesting...prison inmates? Come on, lose the baggage and put on a happy face...or come back when you can! You don't have to look like a model...but for God sakes...smile, look friendly...look like you care about life and aren't considering suicide. We all have issues, we all have baggage...you have to move on...it's life...it's coping. Even worse are the women who look like man haters...pix that say, I'll cut your balls off! Come on...why are you here? Good guys...honest guys...sincere guys...don't want to hear rants about your bad choices...or who fooled you. We didn't do it...and damn it...we're not all the same! Again, get over it! If you can't give us a chance...don't come to the party. 'Cause you now what you'll catch? Nothing. Again, see Einstein's quote! LOL. And the words in your profile...don't sound like a whipped puppy. Think of these as ads...commercials...for you. What do you think we want to know? Upbeat, positive, honest and let it reflect you...not what someone else wrote! Like a resume...give enough information to pique interest. Come on girls...you can do it! Certainly valid...though perhaps more narrow a niche. LOL. One of my points is simply - and research shows - people respond favorably to people who smile. But, yeah, to each his or her own.
I suffered a huge loss...broken heart 15 months ago. I stayed away from women until I could get right with myself...and you know, I'M BACK! Good luck to everyone.