If you have a good profile...fine. But if you aren't getting results...think about the image you're projecting on your profile. And remember Albert Einstein's observation: Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a sign of insanity! I'll concentrate on women's profiles here..because that's what I look at...but I'm sure these comments apply to men, as well. If you post a photo...highly advisable...DO NOT put one up that makes you look like you're a dead dog away from being in the lyrics of a country song. Some of you gals look so sad or despondent, I can't imagine who you expect to find you interesting...prison inmates? Come on, lose the baggage and put on a happy face...or come back when you can! You don't have to look like a model...but for God sakes...smile, look friendly...look like you care about life and aren't considering suicide. We all have issues, we all have baggage...you have to move on...it's life...it's coping. Even worse are the women who look like man haters...pix that say, I'll cut your balls off! Come on...why are you here? Good guys...honest guys...sincere guys...don't want to hear rants about your bad choices...or who fooled you. We didn't do it...and damn it...we're not all the same! Again, get over it! If you can't give us a chance...don't come to the party. 'Cause you now what you'll catch? Nothing. Again, see Einstein's quote! LOL. And the words in your profile...don't sound like a whipped puppy. Think of these as ads...commercials...for you. What do you think we want to know? Upbeat, positive, honest and let it reflect you...not what someone else wrote! Like a resume...give enough information to pique interest. Come on girls...you can do it!
I suffered a huge loss...broken heart 15 months ago. I stayed away from women until I could get right with myself...and you know, I'M BACK! Good luck to everyone.

Thanks for the advice.

Yea thanks!!

I was waiting and waiting for someone

To tell me how to do all this !!

Always smiling

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I read your profile --- and it was --- kind of creepy.

Darling Lil,You never fail to crack me up. Did Einstein use dating sites? be seeing you

Ah, Que sera sera! LOL. The world spins for all of us differently...thankfully. I did us both a favor and decided not to look at your profile! LOL Good luck in your search for someone with a low creepiness score.

Instead of offering unsolicited advice, why not just avoid the profiles you don't like?

I do...and so do most...but you have to read to know? Strange response...do I sense anger? LOL

No anger at all. Why would there be anger? It was just a question.

Great...it just seemed a touch sensitive...anyone can read anything...we're all looking for something. Please, no offense...no harm, no foul.

Seems forums are about solicited and unsolicited advice...I would hope.

If you want to offer advice on profiles, check out the rate my profile section .

sing. be seeing you

I'm not on here to date and I'm currently seeing someone. Usually I prefer someone with a certain level of narcissism, but wowsers. I appreciate you doing me a favor, though. My sincerest thanks.

Hi

lil and sing. you guys kill me be seeing you

I am what i am if its not to your taste then walk on by but before you do pop in and say Hi, a picture is just a picture it does not show your personality and you should never judge a book by its cover!! Anna x

Thanks for helpin us wimmins to see the light...I burned my baggage after reading your rant about women ranting.