I do that too! lol

dangI would get pizzed

I have not had good luck with meeting people from this site either. I've met a drunk, a sloth and a girl that left me 23 voicemails in one afternoon telling me about her day. The ladies that seemed really interesting either ended up being married or they were too timid to try to get to know me.

It's been like 2 1/2 years for me checking out this site regularly. Im seriously thinking of paying for e-harmony.

I have not had good luck with meeting people from this site either. I've met a drunk, a sloth and a girl that left me 23 voicemails in one afternoon telling me about her day. The ladies that seemed really interesting either ended up being married or they were too timid to try to get to know me.

It's been like 2 1/2 years for me checking out this site regularly. Im seriously thinking of paying for e-harmony.

Buttah,did the guy offer you any explanation for the misleading pictures when he called you?

No, not at all. In fact he said that he thinks he looks exactly like his picture and that is he close enough to 6'. LOL I was amazed even more so when he pretty much acted like this was really not a big deal. I told him that I would not have even recognized him, and he acted surprised by this. One word comes to mind: playa

Most of the gals that have this happen to them immediately cancel the date. You are the second one I have known that actually stayed and had dinner. Must have been awkward

I didn't stay. I went into the cafe and got a water, as he followed me, then I came outside, and said I had to get back to work. I didn't want to say what was on my mind, because I think I might have slapped him in the process. I really think I was shocked and getting a water and removing myself from him was all I could think of doing. That is when he leaned in for the kiss. I thought...are you fckuing kidding me????

No, not at all. In fact he said that he thinks he looks exactly like his picture and that is he close enough to 6'. LOL I was amazed even more so when he pretty much acted like this was really not a big deal. I told him that I would not have even recognized him, and he acted surprised by this. One word comes to mind: playa

Most of the gals that have this happen to them immediately cancel the date. You are the second one I have known that actually stayed and had dinner. Must have been awkward

The ONE time this has happened to me, I stayed and finished the date. It SUCKED. His personality was worse than his at-least-15-years-older-than-advertised appearance (which included some horrible hair plugs). He whined the entire time about his ex wife and how she mistreated him. And he wonders why he couldn't ever get a second date.

Not everyone is a fake or a player, I have met someone from here and she looks better than her profile pic, and she is everything and more than what I had expected.

Really, we don't talk about it, too much drama, but have been seeing each other since July.

Okay, I have done it. Let me explain.
I have been chatting back and forth with someone on another site. He had a picture posted, rather attractive, medium build, 6'. We were having great chatting sessions and after about 1 month or so, I decide to give him my phone number to call me. Prior to this, he had given me his number asking me to call, but I was not comfortable yet.

So, we chat on the phone for about another month. He had been asking all along for a date, dinner or lunch. I'm not there yet, so I tell him this. He is okay with it. Time passes when I finally say, yes I will meet for lunch. Well, today was that day.

I agreed to meet him at a nice lunch place. He said he would meet me outside. Okay, so I am not far from this place, so I walk over. I see a man standing outside the restaurant. As I am approaching, still at a distance, I am thinking, "Please, that cannot be him". Then I notice that a couple of women are walking by and he is checking out their behinds. When I get closer he recognizes me and smiles, my thought is "this can't be".
He is not 6 feet, he is at most 5'7", he is also bald, with a mustache and a huge gut. He looked nothing at all like his picture. In fact, if he were inside the restaurant waiting, I would have walked right past him not knowing it was him and thought I was stood up!

Needless to say, when I left and he leaned in to kiss me, I turned and walked away.

I would like to know this; What makes a person be so incredibly non-accurate about what they look like, and think that a person wouldn't notice the difference??? What makes someone do this? Don't they know that once you meet them you will know that they lied about themselves and there would be no chance at all of ever getting a 2nd date?

I have decided this is my first and last date with someone online. I am much more comfortable meeting someone in the Home Depot, the super market, or just about anywhere else. Much less chance of meeting a fraud.

The ONE time this has happened to me, I stayed and finished the date. It SUCKED. His personality was worse than his at-least-15-years-older-than-advertised appearance (which included some horrible hair plugs). He whined the entire time about his ex wife and how she mistreated him. And he wonders why he couldn't ever get a second date.