Ok, I am going to get personal here. I am a good guy, I have lived an
eventful life and still trying to make up for the mistakes that I made
in the past but why is it some women judge you based upon the fact if
you drive or not? I may not drive or have a ton of money but I can give
more Love and Affection than most men. I am a good guy and I am honest
and yet that honesty leaves me wishing that I never should have said
anything. I don't drive because I can't afford it at the present moment!
My license was suspended here in New Jersey for a wrong turn! I wasn't
informed that it was suspended by Motor Vehicles and was informed by an
officer during a traffic stop! I showed the judge proof that I had no
idea it was suspended when I got pulled over, he agreed that it was
their fault but yet I still had to pay a hefty fine and Here in NJ we
have a thing called Insurance Surcharge! It is a $3,000.00 fine! you pay
$1,000.00 a year for three years. It's not fair! I let it go because I
tried to fight it because I wasn't in the wrong! Now it has accrued so
much interest that It is almost double! That is why I don't Drive! They
will not give me a respectable payment option and I am a single father
of two girls struggling to make a life for them. Motor Vehicles wants
600.00 a month,every month to restore my license. If I miss one payment
they will suspend it again! My rent is 600.00 per month. what are thay
the mob? are they crazy? I can't afford it!

Damn, if I lived in New Jersy, I'd be in prison for taking wrong turns.
Hang in there!

they do that crap here in texas too and the tickets count even from
other states


maybe you should check the local taxi cabs see if any female drivers are
single there would be a sure shot

Sorry to hear of your troubles, i know it can be daunting,but if a
woman is avoiding you because you do not drive a car, then think of how
shallow she is. Clothes does not make a man and neither does the car he
drives.If she did not want to date you based on a status symbol e.g. a
car then count your blessings that you have had a lucky escape from w
person who has the potenial to be a gold digger.

Just look how you are saving the environment by either walking/riding
your bike

That..is bull ****!!!! Take care of your daughters! If a woman doesn't
get it, she's not worth it anyway! There's good women out there and alot
of them are on this site!!! Ladies... I toast you all!!!!

man that sucks

Not to change the subject, but Doc, you look very familiar.

hmmmmmmmm...sushi, never been to Missouri City...I was the face of
68'....lol!...kiddin'

Does New Jersey have any type of financial hardship? If they do, file
for it and it should lower your payments a lot.

I agree on what others have said about the females being shallow. I
think some of their fears could be you would use them for a ride
everywhere. That the reason you are interested in her is for her car.
So if you explained that would not be the case you might have better
luck.

Okay, I usually just read these and rarely reply but dude that just
isn't right...both that the state of NJ can bend you over like that and
that ladies try to judge you. Hang in there bro...any chick that thinks
less of you because you are doing what it takes to make a living for you
and your girls just ain't worth it. Single dads rock!