Some of you know that I have been claimed...promised...that kind of thing.

Been that way for a while now.

Anyhow....

Found out that she is married.

This ain't a plea for sympathy or pity. I have known for a while now and purposefully distanced myself till I got over the bad part of the emotionality thing. This is also NOT throwing myself on the auction block for the horny ones to squabble over.

I got alot of friends and well wishers here. I figure you are gonna find out sooner or later and I prefer you hear it from me.

If anything, I still feel kind of stuck in that I am a man of my word and I made a promise to wait....I realize how retarded it must seem to even consider continuing to wait. My line of thinking is...when I give my word...I mean it....

every a-hole can make a promise and keep it when things are good...but, break thier promise when things go south.

Like I said....I know it sounds retarded.

Anyway. Apparently, I am single again. (not sure what the hell she was thinking when she tracked me down but, I am pretty sure the "Oh I am married" thing should have been mentioned)

It is what it is. Like I said...just wanted to let my friends know.

I am cool now and not upset anymore. So I am alright. I just don't wanna act one way when things aren't what they seem.

Still got NO IDEA how I am gonna break this to my family....they ask about her all the damned time.

Minor details I'm sorry, Krupa

I'm sorry, I really am.

Oh, and here are some flowers for you.

Ah, Eric, I'm so hurt for you that this happened, quite sad!

I know you had such high hopes, founded on so many years ...

It sounds like you are on the mend, as well as on your way to putting it into some sort of healthy perspective.

I loathe the 'Romantic School of Hard Knocks',

... But, at least it sure packs a wallop of a learning curve!

That bad taste is never worth repeating.

So glad you have the comfort of your Mingle family of friends ...

I'm one of them, and always here for you ...

Krup, I'm sorry baby. I understand the distancing yourself thing but your friends are your friends regardless. Be honest with your family, they love and support you. Kisses sugar pie.

I am sorry as well...I don't know why people play with others feelings...I am gonna tell you like I have been told the right one is out there....(ahhhh not)...but it makes people feel good to say that...

Yea a by the way I'm married would have been nice.

I remember when you first told us here on mingle about her and that you were going to wait for her. I had nothing but respect for you for doing that.

Kinda a hard thing with family. Like Chrissy said be honest with them like you were with us.

Where's the pat on the back emoticon when you need it cause I'm not drunk enough to give you flowers

I am so sorry t hear of this. It's so not fair and hurts to be played with like that.

That sucks man. You stood by your word. Time to move on and chose a fork..........

Awww Krupa Sorry to hear. Take what you learned about yourself and what you are capable of feeling and give it to some one who deserves it. Wish you all the best!

Awww Krupa, I'm so sorry that happened... Some people are jerks, just remember karma!

Thanks kids.

I am just glad that I am old/jaded enough to not flip the f**k out like I would have in the past.

Oddly enough, I dealt with it pretty well...all things considered.

To an extent, I do understand why she did what she did after it came out and we spoke about it.

Unhappily married....gets her @ss kicked pretty frequently...sticking with it for the career...

Her thing was just needing a dream of the good times past and the hope that good times might be in the future instead of no one understanding her for the rest of her life and just liking the fact that someone loved her with no strings attatched.

Don't get me wrong. My feelings haven't changed. Do I still love her. Yep....can't really do anything about that one. But, I can't just dwell on loving someone who will settle for less than the real thing.....and knows it.

Still, I almost feel guilty about writing the whole thing off. Kind of hard to just disreguard what my heart tells me. But, we do what we gotta do.

I wish nothing but peace to you bro, we've had our differences...more like childish bickering (which I do enjoy, don't get me wrong I love someone having a go at me and able to take the go I give), all the same hope things are turning out as well as they can be.

I sympathize with your situation

Just give yourself a wedgie and I will feel alot better Fear....thank you in advance....muahahahahahaha

I will do that...as long as you give yourself a wet willy, and make it wet...none of that pansy 'I licked my finger' crap either.

KRUPA!!! i am sooooooo sorry to hear that, you dont deserve that kind of heartache... i could round up a few of the girls from texas and hunt her down....

Is her husband going to beat you up?