Self-proclaimed nice guys are usually guys who whine and complain because no one wants them, and usually aren't that nice at all.

I declare lies and deceit!

/facedesk

If that was aimed at me, I am just here to pass time at work. I do not complain, because I could care less.

If that was not aimed at me, I kinda see your point.

I've never held you a conversation so I don't know you, so no, it wasn't aimed at you. It was an attempt to answer your question rather than ignoring it. You're welcome for my kindness.

Wag More, Bark Less

For a newbie you sure expect a lot for very little effort on your part. Somehow useing a profanity as your lead comes of a little juvinile and hostile. Kind of wonder why you see it necessary to outline all the things you don't want unless you are used to making poor decisions about who you date. Wouldn't think it would make a woman feel real confident in you. You might be the next American idol as a musician but that is not a real great lifestyle for most women so that may account for not a lot of interest. Being ex-military and widowed would seem like you have a lot of "issues". Hopeful you hang around and chill out a little the interest might pick up. You are kind of young.

... Yeppers, absolutely!!! ... This is the TRUE Mingle paydirt ... solid GOLD!!! ...

Formula of all experts in the know ...

We all earned our stripes ... and School of Hard Knocks PhDs the long, hard slog way!!! ...

GL ...

Does it matter last or first ? as long as you finish that is what it counts

First, let me explain that there is no such thing as a "ex" Marine. Also, just because I waited until now to hit the forums for help should not throw up the flag that I am a "newbie."

And as for the outlining of what I don't want, I have seen many different users on here that do the exact same thing. I hope you are going to criticize them all.

Just keep on truckin' ... don't take any slaggin' seriously, it can actually be quite random 'round here.

And, I was a member for around 10 months before I ever peeped into the forums.

Once ya get seasoned in, you'll love the forums!

They are the best way to meet peeps, hands down ...

Plus, there is a lively Texas chat thread ... only state that is true of ... GL!!! ...

lmao..sounds like my inbox.. :)

and guys want high maintenance (though they say they don't)

They all finish in the end

gawd, that is an over used and ridiculous term

Sounds like you might have quite a few issues from those bad women you had, and maybe some people (including myself) would be afraid to approach.. i mean..


most of your profile says stay away.. maybe appearing more open would help you, or working on those issues.


Good luck.

once again

nice guys don't finish last

they give up halfway and whine about how life isn't fair and the bad boys get all the girls

Do the Mutual Match thing, and hit YES on every Womans Picture!!

If you are being sarcastic, you learned quick

Well, It will get him noticed??

yeah especially the stalkers ((hey calleigh))


its okay to state you dont like drama or if they dont like your outlook keep truckin because i always find myself posting that against my better judgement...BUT put MORE positive aspects of what youd like in a person...and include things they can relate to ("hey thats me! i do THAT everyday! i think ill email that handsome man")