I am aware that in Christianity that sex can sometimes be a strict topic. But if you really liked a woman and you found out that she lost her virginity, what would you say? Would you let her go?

are you serious?

Yes

Are we all not sinners?
So I would say if she has lost her virginity so be it. She deserves to be forgivin.

Good anwser sir. Very good.

I think there would not be an issue with it. I believe as long as you and the other are in love. Now in regards to just "sleeping" with someone for the sake of sex. I strongly disagree.

I agree with you. ^_^

No I wouldn't, as I mentioned in another thread, it's more who they are when you know them that matters, not who they once were or what mistakes they may have made. Besides that, my past sexually even AS a virgin isn't the rosiest either, and I know I'd hate to be turned down cause of that just as much as a woman would hate to be because she wasn't a virgin due to a past mistake. Judge not, lest you be judged you know?

Slim pickins.

Good luck with all that.

You Xians make me laugh, you are just sooo cute!

I dont really want to get into this right now. but a word ive been hearing alot (especially on this subject) is "forgiviness". Yes God does forgive if you ask for forgivness and mean it. but you have to realize that besides denying God as your lord and saviour (and murder) taking your virginity not seriously and loosing it before you should (before marriage)is a sin that God talks strickly about in the Holy Bible.

Yes, i realize no ones perfect and people make mistakes, ask for forgiviness, and thats fine. but just dont think you can loose your virginity before marriage (or any other temptatious sins) just because you know God will forgive you. its not right and i dont think God appreciates it.

Yes, but it depends on whom, and how many she done it with.

In a world which seems to have a slang street motto "a virgin is an ugly 13 year old" I would also interject that salvation doesn't always come to folks at an early age. So, until a person is a Christian, its hard telling what they might have gone through, experienced, dabbled with, etc. Will you forgive them if they had at one time been a witch before coming to Christ? What if they had dabbled with drugs? Fill-in-the-blank ____________ with a sin, and let's ask if we can forgive any of it.

Christ can forgive all sins, and can we as Christians realize that man, as created, is a sinful critter? The unredeemed, non-saved person might have went through who knows what prior to becoming a Christian. To God, sin is sin, and when God forgives us, our sins are cast as if as far as from the east is from the west. And with Christ as the one making the example, can we not find a way to forgive someone of something they had done perhaps before even knowing Christ? More importantly, can we learn to forgive each other even when we mess up after we come to knowledge of who Jesus is? Better yet, can we forgive ourselves once we figure out right from wrong as we study the Bible?

Forgiveness comes in large packages... it seems like the tally was 70 times 7 times we should forgive... and we're worried about forgiving once?

Matthew 18:21-22
"(v21) Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? (v22) Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven."


Pertaining to forgiving another... perhaps heed this...


Matthew 6:14
"For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:"

Matthew 6:15
"But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."


I think that says it all....

Good post but poor verse choice. When it comes down to someone loosing their virginity before marriage you don't need a fellow man/ woman to forgive you. You need the holy spirit straight up. Those verses are more for theft, betrayal, murder, etc.

And I will never beleive that god wheighs all sins eqaully, because he doesn't, there's your run of the mill sins and mortal sins. Figure out which ones are which.

I really love my virgini

The only ones this was disallowed was the Levite Priests. Then they could if it was a widow of another priest.

So if we could not when paul said if you burn to the widow then marry. Paul was speaking his words not the Spirits. Did yahshua condemn the woman who had 7 husbands? They would of known she was not a virgin. And he did say divorcing for adultry was allowed. Shalom...Miles

P.S. Then again it says if you believe it is sin and you do it then it is sin to you

if you love that person shur. god forgave you. and if he has a problem with it then he is not for you. love comes from the inside.

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I agree.

Nothing... keep her and treat her like human being... Mary Magdalene lost hers many many times but Jesus forgave her... that is not for anybody to judge but God..