Topic: Having A Baby
MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:36 PM




:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake


Didn't say the baby was a mistake or that both parent could not love the baby but to start it's life out of a lie is never the best start.


:thumbsup:

no photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:36 PM
Since love is a choice, then no, nothing can make one fall in love with anyone under any circumstance.

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:37 PM


I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking
blushing laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou




tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:42 PM




:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake


Didn't say the baby was a mistake or that both parent could not love the baby but to start it's life out of a lie is never the best start.




how is it a lie?

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:56 PM

Since love is a choice, then no, nothing can make one fall in love with anyone under any circumstance.
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:56 PM



I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking
blushing laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou




tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!
bigsmile I like my monkeybigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:57 PM





:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake


Didn't say the baby was a mistake or that both parent could not love the baby but to start it's life out of a lie is never the best start.




how is it a lie?






drinker good questionflowerforyou

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:57 PM
It is a lie if the parents stay together for the kid and pretend to be in love. It would be a lie if they got married just for the child.

It's bad enough when parents get divorced that the child thinks it's because of them.

Luckily during my divorce, my daughter knew damn skippy it wasn't her fault at ALL.

That one, and everyone agreed, fell on her father's head and he is still apologizing to her to this day.

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:59 PM
Edited by HasidicEnforcer on Sun 09/20/09 12:59 PM

tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!
bigsmile I like my monkeybigsmile


Monkey or baby juice. Pick one and give it up. indifferent

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:00 PM

It is a lie if the parents stay together for the kid and pretend to be in love. It would be a lie if they got married just for the child.

It's bad enough when parents get divorced that the child thinks it's because of them.

Luckily during my divorce, my daughter knew damn skippy it wasn't her fault at ALL.

That one, and everyone agreed, fell on her father's head and he is still apologizing to her to this day.
bigsmile good pointflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:00 PM


tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!
bigsmile I like my monkeybigsmile


Monkey or baby juice. Pick one and give it up. indifferent
:tongue: Maybe I can send you some baby juice:tongue:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:01 PM




I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking
blushing laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou




tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!
bigsmile I like my monkeybigsmile


do you spank your monkey when it's being bad? :tongue:

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:03 PM
Monkey or baby juice. Pick one and give it up. indifferent
:tongue: Maybe I can send you some baby juice:tongue:


Bio-Tranz, baby. It'll be here tomorrow.


Kind weird how you picked the monkey over the juice though...


...makes me wonder about you....

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:04 PM





I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking
blushing laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou




tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!
bigsmile I like my monkeybigsmile


do you spank your monkey when it's being bad? :tongue:
bigsmile Yes,sometimes that's the only way to get it to behavebigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:04 PM

Monkey or baby juice. Pick one and give it up. indifferent
:tongue: Maybe I can send you some baby juice:tongue:


Bio-Tranz, baby. It'll be here tomorrow.


Kind weird how you picked the monkey over the juice though...


...makes me wonder about you....
:laughing:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:05 PM






I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking
blushing laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou




tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!
bigsmile I like my monkeybigsmile


do you spank your monkey when it's being bad? :tongue:
bigsmile Yes,sometimes that's the only way to get it to behavebigsmile


yeah, monkey's are like that...laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:08 PM







I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking
blushing laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou




tsk tsk... you laugh... you think I jest? I want your monkey!
bigsmile I like my monkeybigsmile


do you spank your monkey when it's being bad? :tongue:
bigsmile Yes,sometimes that's the only way to get it to behavebigsmile


yeah, monkey's are like that...laugh
biggrin They sure arebiggrin

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:22 PM
:banana: whoot whoot:banana:

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:24 PM
still think you should give me the monkey though...

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 01:27 PM

still think you should give me the monkey though...
:tongue: Maybe some monkey juice:tongue: