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But yeah I would just be honest and wonder if I was the only one sleeping in that bed.......  Some cops don't cheat. But, in all honesty, most do. It's part of the "lifestyle". Soooo.....I should become a cop eh?? 
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First I want to thank everyone for their comments...I do hear them all! I simply love this man...any yes he did call me today...we made plans for toight but (LOL) he couldn't make it...I guess I better get used to it or move on...
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First I want to thank everyone for their comments...I do hear them all! I simply love this man...any yes he did call me today...we made plans for toight but (LOL) he couldn't make it...I guess I better get used to it or move on... I'm afraid so. 
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OMG... I went for drinks with friends tonight...I text him that I had feelings for him...I guess I will get my answer...sooner or later...
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Oh well...at least I was honest...
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I'm in love with a man I met about 6 months ago...hes a cop with that type x personality most cops seem to have. I can never stop thinking about him...we have finally graduated from my house to his. He said he has not had many women over...but he doesn't seem to call me enough...he is swat so he says he is really busy...told me this from the first time I met him. Do I believe this or not? All the dating books say busy equals azzhole.... When I first met him he said he would never remarry but the other night he said he would...it just came up in conversation...he also said he knows he comes off as an azzhole...but said he is not...Sooo what does this all mean? That was last Saturday night...and I have not heard another word out of him since then...Do I tell him how I feel? Sometimes I think I should and then if I get a negative response at least I could try to move on...But another part of me does not want to scare him away...PLEASE HELP ME...I value your opinions... just because he has handcuffs doesn't mean he's a cop..... 
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So its now 5pm the next day...still nothing. Will he ever respond? Or is it really over? Girl is going to cry!
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he's a cop (control freak) RUN!  4real
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he's a cop (control freak) RUN! 4real How do we really know that? |
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Doesn't he have to say something...LOL nothing is killing meeeeeeeee. Screw off would be better than this...
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Too busy sounds like he's just not that into you. It could be, that maybe he really is, but, I mean come on! Even if you're busy, you set aside some time for the person you're interested in. I've sacrificed 8 hours of sleep down to 2, just so I could be with someone. I've skipped meals just so I could be with someone. Even called in sick at work. You're getting played, tell him it's game over.
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 What happened to this guys ex-wives?Ever notice how many cops are widowers?
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Most cops are azzholes anyways so I'd just break up with him.
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You have to realize there that I love this man...I met him last January...how can he do this to meeee?
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You have to realize there that I love this man...I met him last January...how can he do this to meeee? You just can't trust a cop, there's way too many dirty ones out there to trust them. As much as it may hurt and suck you have to trust your gut and if it says to leave him and find someone better go for it. Cops are widowers cause they kill their wives and they get away with it cause they just suck. |
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Have you called him?
If so....then, please find something to distract yourself....get busy... fill up your life, with YOU stuff.... please.
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OMG... I went for drinks with friends tonight...I text him that I had feelings for him...I guess I will get my answer...sooner or later... You've been dating since January, I'm assuming you guys are relatively the same age, and you just now told him you had feelings for him. After you had gone out with some friends and had a few drinks. And you did it by texting him. Step back for a moment and think about that. |
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OMG... I went for drinks with friends tonight...I text him that I had feelings for him...I guess I will get my answer...sooner or later... You've been dating since January, I'm assuming you guys are relatively the same age, and you just now told him you had feelings for him. After you had gone out with some friends and had a few drinks. And you did it by texting him. Step back for a moment and think about that. I know...but hes not a talker...I had told him that I thought I felt him before. He has known I wanted more from the start but... |
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I feel for ya. It doesn't sound like it's going to get better. That is just him, or his job, or whatever. My guess is, if you stick with him, it's just going to be more of the same.
Good luck to you. |
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I feel for ya. It doesn't sound like it's going to get better. That is just him, or his job, or whatever. My guess is, if you stick with him, it's just going to be more of the same. Good luck to you. I just can't believe he does not respond...but then again he can be cold as ice... |
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