I deal with the results or non results of my profile because I decided what went in it, it is me and not what the world told me to do.

The day i follow what others say I should do then it wont be me anymore but an image of me from what others would like to see.

Is it good or bad doesn't matter as long as it's me, ain't it what a profile is suppose to be YOU.

Heehee that was cute

I guess it is a stop sign????

Just being snarky!

Wouldn't want it, any other way!

You're right, the profile is all you and no one HAS to follow or use the tips I wrote down. Think of them as break crumbs to get to the loaf of bread, if that makes any sense???

Be who you are, do what you do and express yourself freely. No one has to change for anyone, I was just giving tips to make it easier for guys, so they have a chance.

Hmmmmm! bread crumbs.Yummy!My day is already off to a great start.

lol sweet

How do the simplest things become so complicated?


Good god.



No wonder everyone is single.

My profile is 1400 pages long and I have tons of pictures there, and I get a lot of viewers. Many of them are repeat offenders in that they periodically check back for periodic updates, which I periodically do.

Now, it's true that most of the correspondence I get from new viewers is either of the argumentative or dismissive variety, but that's OK. I figure anything that can generate that kind of rancor in otherwise sedentary 48-year-old women with 4 kids is probably a good thing. Cardio, and all that.

Ohh Lexy.... I could train for a triathalon if we actually met... and I'd never have to leave the house.

IV..... wowsers.... nice pic.

You're scaring me! I was in a serious car accident 7 months ago and I'm not....quite....recovered, ya know....!!

Its supposed to be funny. I was trying to comb my hair out into a mullet.

I adore scaring you, trying to keep you in good cardio health too.

It's very ummmmm Gladiator steamy.

Well, the heart has never really been the problem....! Not in the cardio sense, anyway.

Awww Sexy Lexy. I wish I could give you a great big hug!

So, what's too much for you? Her post is longer than most, but really, it isn't that long. Most of the time, guys use that as an excuse. I've been told that my profile is too long, yet it's not really that long.

Works for me, I could definitely use one.

Re: this idea that guys don't like longer profiles, I can say, speaking strictly for myself, that this is absolutely not true. I want as much information as I can get on the person, so -- unless they really really can't write at all (and this certainly does happen) -- longer is better, presuming the length is justified by the amount of useful material included therein.

I am so tired of the "I don't know what to write here" and "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask" profiles -- it would be nice to see someone who actually had something to say, and said it in a manner worth reading....regardless of length.

I hope women dont actually believe that short attention span is shared by ALL men.



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