Topic: Looking for ladys 18 - 50 in Hallandale Beach, Florida
lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 08:00 AM
Personally, I do not at all expect a man to buy me anything. I do not expect gifts, flowers, or anything. Now, I do not mean that if a guy sends me flowers I get upset, but it's hardly an expectation. And certainly not a regular event. It should be spontaneous and infrequent, so as to keep it special when you do it. Grand gestures, when made regularly, stop seeiming so grand as you get used to them.

What I expect is time, consideration, and respect.

Some of the best times you can spend with a person involve no money whatsoever. Maybe you are buying them too much? What are you buying them things?

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 08:41 AM

Personally, I do not at all expect a man to buy me anything. I do not expect gifts, flowers, or anything. Now, I do not mean that if a guy sends me flowers I get upset, but it's hardly an expectation. And certainly not a regular event. It should be spontaneous and infrequent, so as to keep it special when you do it. Grand gestures, when made regularly, stop seeiming so grand as you get used to them.

What I expect is time, consideration, and respect.

Some of the best times you can spend with a person involve no money whatsoever. Maybe you are buying them too much? What are you buying them things?

The things i buy her is when we go shopping together she say that i like to have that,if this is not expensive i buy this.Im not a money spender or a sponsor for her,i not buying them flowers and gifts every day, i buy only on acassion.

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 08:42 AM
You need to stop that. She can buy things for herself. If it is her birthday or whatever.... then buy it when she is not there and wrap it up for a surprise.

But if you did to me what you just described, I would not let you buy it. I would be offended.

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:02 AM

You need to stop that. She can buy things for herself. If it is her birthday or whatever.... then buy it when she is not there and wrap it up for a surprise.

But if you did to me what you just described, I would not let you buy it. I would be offended.


See thats what i need the girl like you,thats dont care about the money,you just need love and appreciation from the guy.

Holly4459's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:07 AM
happy I'm 50- but don't live in Florida...:cry:

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:12 AM

happy I'm 50- but don't live in Florida...:cry:

ok, you interested in me?

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:29 AM
Hmmm. Not a quick study, are you?

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Mon 09/14/09 09:32 AM

Hmmm. Not a quick study, are you?





laugh laugh

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:39 AM

Hmmm. Not a quick study, are you?

im just saying that i need to look for woman like you,i meant with the attitude like you.

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:40 AM


Hmmm. Not a quick study, are you?

im just saying that i need to look for woman like you,i meant with the attitude like you.


But you asked that question of Holly4459, not of me.

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:44 AM
Edited by valik86 on Mon 09/14/09 09:45 AM



Hmmm. Not a quick study, are you?

im just saying that i need to look for woman like you,i meant with the attitude like you.


But you asked that question of Holly4459, not of me.


i asked her is she interested in me, i dont understend why she put this quote : I'm 50- but don't live in Florida

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:47 AM
It is what it is. She fits within your age parameters but not the distance. That's all.

Holly4459's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:47 AM
Sorry Valik! Just meant I'm 50 -but just not in your neck of the woods!bigsmile

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:50 AM

Sorry Valik! Just meant I'm 50 -but just not in your neck of the woods!bigsmile

oh,ok

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:59 AM
thanks ladys for your advices,maybe im just young and stupid guy who need to learn more about wemen.

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 10:00 AM
You do seem naive. How long have you lived in the US?

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 10:03 AM

You do seem naive. How long have you lived in the US?


7 years,but still dont speak english well

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 10:04 AM
Do you have friends in relationships?

valik86's photo
Mon 09/14/09 10:05 AM

Do you have friends in relationships?

you meant girls?

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 10:08 AM
No, I mean friends in successful relationships you can talk to and learn from.