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Blind faith may work for many in loving without any physical evidence. Seeing is believing for others. Maybe there is just more than one way of "loving". You can please some of the people all of the time. You can please all of the people some of the time. But you can not please all of the people all of the time.
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you may fall for the persona that is presented to you on the net, but not the person...
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I dont understand the question.. are you implying that in order to love someone you must have physically met in person? How long have you been talking to said individual? this is actually not about me, although I am very curious. Of course I am implying that you have to physically meet someone to be IN love with them. My bootylicious buddy buttah is not talking about herself. She has this FRIEND, see, and... 
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? You can fall in love without having physically met them and be wrong once you get to be face to face as you can fall in love when you meet physically and then see you were wrong after you talked to them. Love is a feeling not a physical thing someones brain and ideas can be all you need to fall in love, the physical part is only for sensation touching sex and so on and some will only base their feeling on those aspect others will try the whole package while some only care if they think alike. So to each is own but yes you can fall in love even if you never met in person. I disagree. How can you truly know someone, when, IMO, love is of the mind, body, & soul? You are loving the "idea" of love. We all feel that at some point. But is is not lasting. How can it be? It is an "idea", brought on by perceptions and not based in reality. It is like saying, I love George Clooney. It is your "belief" that you love him, but that is an illusion. You may lust after him, base on your perception of who his is, but perceptions change all the time, based on more information. The physical is not only about sex, it is about the connection through sight, touch, and all of your senses. To define the physical based only on sex is one dimensional, and naive. I think I'm with my bootilicious buddy Buttah...if you haven't yet met, how might "pheromones" be allowed to work between you?  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pheromones (scroll down to "Human" please, unless you want to be compared to a sow, sea urchin, or Japanese beetles!)  There's even a song which had been written about pheromones, likely before such a phenomena had even been suggested: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNC0kIzM1Fo  thank you baby   btw, I am really a Leatherback turtle This is the part where I reply, "I know, I'm just trying to coax you out of your shell...har-har (tired of typing, "LOL"...). Out of all the animals you could have chosen to personify yourself, why a turtle, and why a LEATHERBACK turtle? Oh, I know why!  Emailing now... |
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Edited by
trublu4u
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Mon 09/14/09 06:10 PM
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Ya but Buttah How can you say your love for a "person" is true just because you have met them? You mean you justify that bc you say by meeting someone you "know who they are"? I don't understand what you're getting at Let me explain. It is not that you will love the person when you meet them, but it is the only way, IMO, that you will know whether you do or don't. You cannot know by chatting or phone calls. I believe love here is possible, but yes, for sure you really dont know a person til youve met them in person.. and have seen first hand how they live, who they are.. what they do. You just dont really KNOW them.. believe me.. i have first hand experience with this one.. o LAWD! ha ha And that Earthy is one smart chick! God bless your soul.  Earthy does have it goin' on, doesn't she! She has cool pix of female vampires, too...
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Edited by
trublu4u
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Mon 09/14/09 06:12 PM
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Ya but Buttah How can you say your love for a "person" is true just because you have met them? You mean you justify that bc you say by meeting someone you "know who they are"? I don't understand what you're getting at Let me explain. It is not that you will love the person when you meet them, but it is the only way, IMO, that you will know whether you do or don't. You cannot know by chatting or phone calls. I believe love here is possible, but yes, for sure you really dont know a person til youve met them in person.. and have seen first hand how they live, who they are.. what they do. You just dont really KNOW them.. believe me.. i have first hand experience with this one.. o LAWD! ha ha And that Earthy is one smart chick! God bless your soul. Earthy does have it goin' on, doesn't she! She has cool pix of female vampires, too... Uhm...did I mention that earthys' got it goin' on?  |
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Edited by
Cutiepieforyou
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Mon 09/14/09 06:10 PM
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I think you need to spend time with a person to get to know them.
Let alone fall in love. |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? No. |
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