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I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm Ohhhh yeah it can change for sure... Not always but most of the time it does.. Or when you meet them and they're not who or what they had portrayed.. I've seen that a lot online.... Well, suppose they ARE who they said they were, and they were exactly as they had portrayed themselves, even more so ... and you had feelings before the meeting... because of the chats, the phone calls, the connection, etc.? This only emphasizes one's feelings even more to find out they are what you had originally believed and thought to begin with. Not everyone is into embellishing themselves or their profiles... thank goodness...  Oh I don't think everyone is.. That's why I used "can and not always"... In the past I've met some that weren't what they had led me to believe but nothing major, some I've exited before the meeting for various reasons and other cases I've heard that just weren't good.. There is not an "all" of anything as far as I'm concerned, but there is a "some" of a lot of things... |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? I'm sure she's out there....somewhere....perhaps not in this lifetime though...(sigh), ever onward, ever upward..who knows what tomorrow will bring?  I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. The mist is lifting slowly, I can see the way ahead And I've left behind the empty streets That once inspired my life And the strength of the emotion Is like thunder in the air 'Cos the promise that we made each other Haunts me to the end. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. The secret of your beauty And the mystery of your soul I've been searching for in everyone I meet And the times I've been mistaken It's impossible to say And the grass is growing Underneath our feet. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. The words that I remember From my childhood still are true That there's none so blind As those who will not see And to those who lack the courage And say it's dangerous to try Well they just don't know That love eternal will not be denied. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. Yes, I know it's going to happen, I can feel you getting near And soon we'll be returning To the fountain of our youth And, if you wake up wondering In the darkness, I'll be there. My arms will close around you And protect you with the truth. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And some |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? I'm sure she's out there....somewhere....perhaps not in this lifetime though...(sigh), ever onward, ever upward..who knows what tomorrow will bring? I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. The mist is lifting slowly, I can see the way ahead And I've left behind the empty streets That once inspired my life And the strength of the emotion Is like thunder in the air 'Cos the promise that we made each other Haunts me to the end. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. The secret of your beauty And the mystery of your soul I've been searching for in everyone I meet And the times I've been mistaken It's impossible to say And the grass is growing Underneath our feet. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. The words that I remember From my childhood still are true That there's none so blind As those who will not see And to those who lack the courage And say it's dangerous to try Well they just don't know That love eternal will not be denied. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And somehow I'll return again to you. Yes, I know it's going to happen, I can feel you getting near And soon we'll be returning To the fountain of our youth And, if you wake up wondering In the darkness, I'll be there. My arms will close around you And protect you with the truth. I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere, somewhere I know you're out there somewhere, Somewhere you can hear my voice. I know I'll find you somehow, Somehow, somehow. I know I'll find you somehow And some (((Lori))) 
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pS12qsl6wxM
We go sailing down the calming streams Drifting endlessly by the bridge To be over We will see To be over Do not suffer through the game of chance that plays Always doors to lock away your dreams Think it over Time will heal your fear Think it over Balance the thoughts that release within you Childlike soul dreamer one journey One to seek and see in every light do open True pathways away Carrying closer go gently Holding doors will open everyway You wander true pathways away After all your soul will still surrender After all dont doubt your part Be ready to be loved  |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? That reeks of phychoness to me. For me - no f'in way that would happen. And any woman that has done that I would be very, very cautious with. Craziness to me. |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? That reeks of phychoness to me. For me - no f'in way that would happen. And any woman that has done that I would be very, very cautious with. Craziness to me. Not craziness, or psychoness, maybe just wanting something a little too much. I think it happens all the time, even in conventional relationships (y'know, before the internet). People see too much in the person they are with, because that is what they want, not necessarily what the person truly is. Men just as easily as women. |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? i don't know about anyone else's definition of love, but for me it was possible. i did love my boyfriend before we'd actually physically met. it might not have been reinforced and/or solidified until we'd met, but there's no doubt that i loved him prior to that happening. |
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I believe that you can "believe" it but you won't know until you meet them.. Meeting changes things.... I agree IMHO, finally meeting DOES change things. However, after just a bit of time together, in a reflective moment over what had been said via email, two people can latch on to each other as a magnet to steel. One of those "screen kisses"...just like in the movies, where the romantic, musical score rises to a crescendo... >SIGH< ...and his needle-sharp fangs sink deeply into your jugular! MWAAA-HAA-HAA-HAAAAA....  (...for all you twisted vampire necros out there from my previous topic.) 
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LOVE......NO
LUST......SURE  
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My answer is NOPE,I don't think that's possible Ditto! |
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Edited by
trublu4u
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Sun 09/13/09 07:57 AM
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I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm Ohhhh yeah it can change for sure... Not always but most of the time it does.. Or when you meet them and they're not who or what they had portrayed.. I've seen that a lot online.... Well, suppose they ARE who they said they were, and they were exactly as they had portrayed themselves, even more so ... and you had feelings before the meeting... because of the chats, the phone calls, the connection, etc.? This only emphasizes one's feelings even more to find out they are what you had originally believed and thought to begin with. Not everyone is into embellishing themselves or their profiles... thank goodness... Oh I don't think everyone is.. That's why I used "can and not always"... In the past I've met some that weren't what they had led me to believe but nothing major, some I've exited before the meeting for various reasons and other cases I've heard that just weren't good.. There is not an "all" of anything as far as I'm concerned, but there is a "some" of a lot of things... There are some lady-minglers with a very lengthy (NPI-no pun intended) check-list. Is there a MALE equivalent to the female plasti-companion doll, whose mouth is set in a permanent "O"? And NO, I'm not talking about one of "those"!  To those who repeat this mantra (I-WILL-NOT-SETTLE-I-WILL-NOT-SETTLE-I...): DON'T WAIT YOUR LIFE AWAY. 
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Sun 09/13/09 07:59 AM
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I dont understand the question.. are you implying that in order to love someone you must have physically met in person?
How long have you been talking to said individual? |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? Buttah
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 NA Y
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Friendship yes,true lasting love.no
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Edited by
BillySuvol
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? And it doesn't matter whether or not you chat with them or how you do it. Think about it. You have people out there who are "in love with" Elvis or Lucille Ball or Johnny Depp or whatever. It is the same concept, in my opinion Love is something we create in our minds, bodies, souls, hearts...wherever you may personally believe it comes from. The "feeling" though? The feeling definitely doesnt need to be created in person. In fact? I think its easier to fall in love from a distance |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? You can fall in love without having physically met them and be wrong once you get to be face to face as you can fall in love when you meet physically and then see you were wrong after you talked to them. Love is a feeling not a physical thing someones brain and ideas can be all you need to fall in love, the physical part is only for sensation touching sex and so on and some will only base their feeling on those aspect others will try the whole package while some only care if they think alike. So to each is own but yes you can fall in love even if you never met in person. |
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? You can fall in love without having physically met them and be wrong once you get to be face to face as you can fall in love when you meet physically and then see you were wrong after you talked to them. Love is a feeling not a physical thing someones brain and ideas can be all you need to fall in love, the physical part is only for sensation touching sex and so on and some will only base their feeling on those aspect others will try the whole package while some only care if they think alike. So to each is own but yes you can fall in love even if you never met in person. Pretty sure we are agreeing there, Alz...so cheers to you 
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? Buttah  
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Faux-love....it is an illusion created through hope and desire. |
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