Topic: *pondering* hmmm, how is being real...
AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:40 PM
different from being "a nice guy"...?

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:42 PM
Edited by Mayhem_J on Fri 09/11/09 12:42 PM
Cause some people are real a$$holes!!

Cambolaya65's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:42 PM
nice guy= door mat,sucker
Real= not a bullsh_tter,player

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Fri 09/11/09 12:43 PM
Oh, I'm sure you're a "real" nice guy...

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:44 PM
all we see is a picture and posts...are you even "real?" :smile:

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:45 PM
If your "really" a nice man...

Then being a " nice " man ....

Is really who you are!

And that's a good thing:heart:

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:45 PM

Oh, I'm sure you're a "real" nice guy...


uhm... not going there! :banana: just exploring the symantics of it all!

TxsSun's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:48 PM

different from being "a nice guy"...?




You are a "good" guy laugh

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Fri 09/11/09 12:54 PM
What I wonder is why so many guys insist on describing themselves as nice guys. Isn't there a better way to describe yourself?

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 09/11/09 12:56 PM
The last thing I'd ever call myself is nice....lol.

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Fri 09/11/09 12:58 PM

nice guy= door mat,sucker
Real= not a bullsh_tter,player


How is being real a player?

no photo
Fri 09/11/09 01:01 PM

different from being "a nice guy"...?



I don't know. Anyone who feels the need to proclaim himself as one or the other, or both, is someone I immediately have suspicions about. Saying it doesn't make it so, but the NEED to say it speaks volumes.

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 09/11/09 01:15 PM

What I wonder is why so many guys insist on describing themselves as nice guys. Isn't there a better way to describe yourself?


not calling myself either one, just pondering... after reading posts - and curious what people mean by "real" more than anything else...

real = bluntly honest? sincere??

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 09/11/09 01:16 PM


nice guy= door mat,sucker
Real= not a bullsh_tter,player


How is being real a player?


I think he meant, not a blushitttter, not a player... (how I took it anyway)...

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 09/11/09 01:17 PM


different from being "a nice guy"...?




You are a "good" guy laugh


yep, 'cuase there's a difference... I my personality type tends to be a bit difficult to get along with... (analytical type A.. or ENTP if you get the myers briggs thing)....drinker

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Fri 09/11/09 01:32 PM
A real guy or woman can be an assshole or a great person. But they are real with who and what they are. So honesty and real, equal the person they say they are. Wink. truth and real with it. Is very hard to find in typed words here!

auburngirl's photo
Fri 09/11/09 03:07 PM



nice guy= door mat,sucker
Real= not a bullsh_tter,player


How is being real a player?


I think he meant, not a blushitttter, not a player... (how I took it anyway)...


He did. That is what it says...NOT a bullsh*tter player.

Since when is it a bad thing to consider or call yourself nice?

TxsSun's photo
Fri 09/11/09 03:09 PM



different from being "a nice guy"...?




You are a "good" guy laugh


yep, 'cuase there's a difference... I my personality type tends to be a bit difficult to get along with... (analytical type A.. or ENTP if you get the myers briggs thing)....drinker



drinker I am the same way drinker

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 09/11/09 03:13 PM


different from being "a nice guy"...?



I don't know. Anyone who feels the need to proclaim himself as one or the other, or both, is someone I immediately have suspicions about. Saying it doesn't make it so, but the NEED to say it speaks volumes.



Beat me to it Lex... I so agree with this..
Real or nice doesnt' have to be proclaimed just is.

auburngirl's photo
Fri 09/11/09 03:18 PM



different from being "a nice guy"...?



I don't know. Anyone who feels the need to proclaim himself as one or the other, or both, is someone I immediately have suspicions about. Saying it doesn't make it so, but the NEED to say it speaks volumes.



Beat me to it Lex... I so agree with this..
Real or nice doesnt' have to be proclaimed just is.


Yabut yabut...what about the ones that feel the need to constantly toot their own horn???