Topic: Finding the 1 who will win your heart
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Thu 09/10/09 10:05 AM
love How do you know if that person is right 4 you? What qualities do you look 4 when searching 4 that 1? What ultimately lets you know that person is the right 1? I've been searching with no success, but alot of pervs along the way. I'm just a simple woman looking 4 love and committment. Is that 2 much 2 ask 4? Let me know what you're looking 4 and if my profile interests you! Thanx!

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Thu 09/10/09 10:07 AM
It's a LONG road. How do you know? When you're not scared to be vulnerable, when you trust without worrying about it, and when your vision is not clouded with red flags. When you don't have to defend their actions to others, when you feel happier when they are around, and when they support you rather than break you down. When they ask nothing of you than your company and support, and encouragement is continuous.

But it takes a while... and be wary. I wish you the very best of luck.

Boobella's photo
Thu 09/10/09 10:08 AM
You never do... it just BAM!! love

Bandii's photo
Thu 09/10/09 10:14 AM
I look for honesty and simplicity. Someone down to earth who enjoys having fun going out etc but also that is able to enjoy some time sitting at home one random day and cuddle before the tv with a bowl of popcorn.

People normally have an idea of what they want but the truth is that life is full of surprises. You might have that idea, yet life could bring you the complete opposite of the woman you expect it... And for some reason you liked it.


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Thu 09/10/09 10:15 AM

It's a LONG road. How do you know? When you're not scared to be vulnerable, when you trust without worrying about it, and when your vision is not clouded with red flags. When you don't have to defend their actions to others, when you feel happier when they are around, and when they support you rather than break you down. When they ask nothing of you than your company and support, and encouragement is continuous.

But it takes a while... and be wary. I wish you the very best of luck.


Mmm..well said. And very true that it's a LONG road!

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Thu 09/10/09 10:19 AM
I don't have a list of qualities that someone must have in order to find someone I like. I just look for someone I enjoy being around, who can make me laugh and then I go from there.

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Thu 09/10/09 10:31 AM
Taste good? No, that's not right...in order to taste good they have to be able to be cooked well, some people end up burning quicker than others...err, not that I would know, just assuming...

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Thu 09/10/09 11:10 AM

Taste good? No, that's not right...in order to taste good they have to be able to be cooked well, some people end up burning quicker than others...err, not that I would know, just assuming...


The evil ones require a lower flame, because they're already volatile, I thought we discussed this.....laugh

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Thu 09/10/09 11:11 AM
I just like a guy who answers my emails and doesn't ask if I'm wearing panties. Now that's true love....love laugh