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I was really close friends with this girl for a while. I mean, judging by her actions this girl really liked me. She was sweet, caring, generous, everything. Then a few months ago she started acting differently towards me and it only got worse until at this point she doesn't speak to me at all and she lives 4 apartments away. I found out yesterday that she doesn't like me anymore, she's saying nasty stuff about me and that she's really mad that her friend still hangs out with me??? I knew she had issues but this is just crazy! I never did anything wrong to that girl. To be honest I love her. I would have done anything on earth for her! I'm so confused. She has no reason to hate me. I just don't understand how she went from being probably my best friend to my enemy in 2 months for ABSOLUTELY NO REASON. Why me personally? All I ever was to her was kind.
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She probably found out that you were a "nice guy."
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Some people are really immature.
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 I knew a man like that. Remember it is their problem not yours
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Edited by
CyPoet
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Mon 09/07/09 08:44 PM
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Perhaps she was a wolf in cheap clothing,ooops!I meant sheep's clothing.
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGJ8RtfRxDg&feature=PlayList&p=BACAADA8FD59A5F6&index=16 |
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She probably found out that you were a "nice guy."  yer prob rt lewis a lot of gal's now day's dont want a nice guy and a lot of guy's dont want a nice girl.
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Edited by
michiganman3
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Mon 09/07/09 08:41 PM
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Knew a gal like that in high school, found out later she had a brain tumor.
True Story!! |
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Then a few months ago she started acting differently towards me and it only got worse until at this point she doesn't speak to me at all and she lives 4 apartments away Look back in time and find a particular day close to that time,when either you or her said or asked something. It might had seen as insignificant, but it wasn't. I know this from my own experience. |
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Time to move on.
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so as I said, it might have been insignificant (for you) but it wasn't.
When I was 20 and I was dating a 19 year old, one day as we were driving and pretty much having fun and talking about all sorts of things, she said something like "would it be weird if we would be married?" and I said "yeah, you're 19 and I'm 20 so no way I would get married until we are at least 25". Later she became colder and less friendly over weeks and months and one day she just left me. I didn't understand for a very long time, and then it clicked in, when I heard, that she got married a few months later. The puzzle was solved. |
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I was really close friends with this girl for a while. I mean, judging by her actions this girl really liked me. She was sweet, caring, generous, everything. Then a few months ago she started acting differently towards me and it only got worse until at this point she doesn't speak to me at all and she lives 4 apartments away. I found out yesterday that she doesn't like me anymore, she's saying nasty stuff about me and that she's really mad that her friend still hangs out with me??? I knew she had issues but this is just crazy! I never did anything wrong to that girl. To be honest I love her. I would have done anything on earth for her! I'm so confused. She has no reason to hate me. I just don't understand how she went from being probably my best friend to my enemy in 2 months for ABSOLUTELY NO REASON. Why me personally? All I ever was to her was kind. |
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Sounds like she just not into that nice guy type.....It is also possible that she has another bf and never found a way to dump you...Lift you chin up an move on man....there are millions of women out here to date...I think it is a good idea to live and learn. Give it time man....
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so as I said, it might have been insignificant (for you) but it wasn't. When I was 20 and I was dating a 19 year old, one day as we were driving and pretty much having fun and talking about all sorts of things, she said something like "would it be weird if we would be married?" and I said "yeah, you're 19 and I'm 20 so no way I would get married until we are at least 25". Later she became colder and less friendly over weeks and months and one day she just left me. I didn't understand for a very long time, and then it clicked in, when I heard, that she got married a few months later. The puzzle was solved. Sir, I think you may have dodged a bullet right there. I get in trouble with my words all the time. It doesn't really matter what you say. If she wants to hear something, she'll hear it. |
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You're young so you probably haven't figured this out yet. Women are crazy. Get used to it.
Men are crazy too, but it's a different kind of crazy. The trick is to find someone who's crazyness is endearing.... |
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She probably found out that you were a "nice guy." Exactly why be nice to someone that treats you like dirt. |
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She probably found out that you were a "nice guy."  The Kling On syndrome..... 
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She probably found out that you were a "nice guy." The Kling On syndrome..... You are correct. Clingy one small step from obsessive. |
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yeah, I was probably too nice to her but I was like that from the beginning...I had to be to prevent myself from falling in love with her...for all the good that did...
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Actually.......none of will know the answer because we werent there. Maybe you were stalkerish??? Maybe you were an a hole and believed you were being a nice guy........
Maybe she is just a b*tch????? how are we supposed to know the full story???? |
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Sometimes people treat someone badly because they can. Step back and be aloof(stand-offish) and that might shake her up a bit. But, do you really want her?
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